Ill start by giving the back ground information and hopefully someone can give me some pointers here on what i should be doing better , to finally get this girl that i like.
Ive known this girl (alysha) for like 3 years, and when i started liking her, my ex gf came back to me and said she wanted to be with me, so naturally i left alysha and went back to my ex...after me and her broke up i started talking to alysha again, trying to re kindle the fire we once had...buttt once again my ex came back to me and i left alysha for some retarted reason.

i wish i had never went back to my ex girlfrind and i wish i could have stayed with alysha this whole time..

anyways, now i have been single for about a year, and alysha has had one bf for like 4 months in that year....now we are both single, and we are going on a date again this monday !!
but she is all sketchy about me cause she thinks i will just leave her again, even though i wouldnt..

how can i re assure her tht i wont without saying the same old "im sorry ...., ill change ,... it wont happen again,.... i do like you"

if anyone has gone threw something similar can u please help me, i do want to date this girl , i know that she is perfect for me....

thanks guys
cheers.

Relax man! - its not about saying anything just show her... don't focus on the face that it happened just show her your different and show her a great night... another thing if she brings it up I would just give her a clever remark like we all make mistakes, if mistakes were never made I would never be here with you tonight so lets just make the best of it and enjoy the night!

yeah i guess your right, that sounds good too, thanks bud.