I´m in the middle of a really weird story that´s driving me crazy from time to time.

DROP SOME KNOWLEDGE PLEASE!!
Thankssss

From the way it reads........ she is using you to fill a void maybe shes bored, or feels down somtimes, maybe stuff with her dad is effecting her emotionally and she wants u there to make things feel good.

So when shes not contacting you or replying to your messages ? well thats when life is going good n shes not thinking of you as much!!!

I might be wrong but dont look at her like a "nice girl" whos "awww confused" cos she probably knows exactly what shes doing. Dont let yourself fall deep with her.


Just tell her how you feel n that she should take it or leave it, then you can move on or work things out, no point playing silly games.

Thanks for the input!

And maybe ur right... she´s getting what she needs maybe. In my case I´d think of it different cause I wont be seeking "love" just for a moment. Casual sex is one think... but casual caring/loving/wehatever is another.



AND SORRY FOR THE LONG POST!! hahah

I have to a agree...I think she does have feeling for you but rather than havea relationship she is using you. Why? Im not sure but perhaps her level of interest is low? perhaps she likes you but you are not what she "thought" she wanted in a man.

Honestly it could be a number of things! Mabey you are being to afc and she doesnt see you as solid bf material? iduno but thats somthing you will have to figure out on your own.

Some girls are just whores as well...I hate to say it but mabey you are not the only other guy she has on the go? women are very good at balancing many men at once.

Yeah... but the first thing is I´m not actually looking for a relationship with her. We never spoke about anything like that, but she is showing MAD loving and stuff like that, that´s my point and why I don´t understand her...

If you dont want want a relationship......... why are you so bothered about the way shes acting ?

Have her when you can and have other girls the rest of the time ? You have nothing to worry about just take it as it comes, seems like u have feelings for her though and might not realise you do want somthing with her even if its not a relationship.

To tell you the truth... I´m confused. I don´t really know wussup .But it feels like she´s in the same situation