Hey PUAs. I started at a new job, if been here 3 weeks now. Here's a HB8 on my floor. We like 2 offices away from each other.
Anyway we've met and after that chatted a few times. I haven’t really game her yet. Just gave her few compliments before and a neg her once. She was wearing glasses but she don't like wearing them, so I told her she should as it makes her look smarter. lol she give me a look and then giggle as she could see I was just joking with her.
My problem is, she has a bf and I might fall into the friend zone. We chatting a lot more now and she told me that the guy that sits in the same office as her likes her and always try to look down her tops. So she asked the manager if she could move to her own space, which they going to do for her. Luckily it’s still close to me, which means I'll always bumb into her.

How do I go about gaming her and not fall into the friend zone? Keep in mind she has a bf.

dude. it depends on what u want from her and
how you found out that had a bf.

do u wanna continue to game her for practice or do u wanna get in her pants.
and did she randomly tell u she had a bf or did u see him or something?
cause if she straight up told u. that may be a straight up sign to leave it alone.

Thank you for the reply.

To be honest I want to get into her pants.
The bf came up during a chat we had about what we doing for the weekend. She said she will be with her bf.

At the moment, we are flirting and being very playful. I would tease her and she will always playfuly hit me and giggle.
Last week friday we had lunch together, and got to know each other a bit better. We agreed that we would have lunch together every friday.

My question know would be, how do I move from flirting and being playful to kiss closing?[/quote]

I recommend u be careful first because if this goes back for u, it can lead to a sex harassment case or u being fired. but if u still want to proceed I would recommend still flirting, get the kino going nothing to personal, let the jokes fly, and go slow on the flirting see how she reacts to it, if things go good... then I would esclate it to something casual like me and my friends are going to such and such bar... u should come... if she agrees once when she goes kick it up flirt and try to lock it in!

heya

ok so i had the same problem and i talked to the chief, but we'll come back to that later.

anyways we all kno that to go from flirting to a k close we have to have kino escalation, so there's at least a proper build up to a kclose, HOWEVER escalating kino is hard at a work place because like u said it might lead to sexual harrasment. SO what do we do? we go back to wat the chief said.
which is use SOI (statement of intent) with a kino reward.
for example "hey hb8 can u hold this ?"
pretend to do something else
then take it back off her and say "thanks"
THEN
reward her with a kino touch, the more soi, the more kino, therefore more escalation, then u can escalate to a point where she's comfortable with a kclose.

IM NOT 100% SURE ON THE SUBJECT BUT THIS IS THE GIST OF IT, it hasnt actually worked for me, mainly cause i dont get enough alone time with the hb im trying to game and also i recommend PM'ing the chief for more info.


OH ONE MORE THING

are u sure the bf thing wasnt a shit test?
or have u actually met/seen bf?
and u might wanna try the bf destroyer technique as well

Thank you guys a lot for the advice.

Im still flirting with her and got a date with her next week friday. So im going to kino a lot more when we on the date and go for the kiss close.

The bf is real, I've seen him when he picks her up after work. He is still the only thing in my way to close the deal and staying out of the friend zone.

Honestly, I woudn't try anyting on her. Unless you realy don't like your joband don't care if you get fired. You really have a lot to loose and there are so many girls out there, why do you need that one?

She could be a very nice introduction to a nice circle of HBs, that's the way I would 'use' her. Go into the frind zone, get her into your circle and let her introduce you to some of her friends.

but hey, to each his own.

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I agree with TheJ

Because you have known her for 3 weeks + you would have to work harder to make an impression and throw effective game at her.

The best thing to do is keep her as a "pawn" for meeting other HBs.

Let her come out with you as a friend and you will get social proof by being out with her which in turn makes other women feel attracted to you.

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Make sure u pay attention to the IOIs and keep everything solid... put on some A game... good luck

and btw I agree with the rest if this is your career be very careful, if its just a regular 9-5 u could careless about then pursue it... but u would be stupid as hell to give up a 100k good job for any chick... shit happens to ceo all the time fucking with stupid assistants, fuck that not me (no thanks)...