OK, so I signed up to match a couple of months ago and didn't really fuck with it because I had two lady's on rotation. every once and a while I would send a wink, or rummage threw the search options never really getting any reply. Well the lady's are out of the picture, and I am now working two jobs, so my game has suffered from lack of time. I started fucking with match after listening to some pod-casts, and I have got like 10 different girls hollering at me. I want to see all of them I just don't know how to take it to the next step. I have them all hooked, and wanting to hang out, but here is the problem.
1-I have two jobs, one is at night on the weekends...so no time.
2-I'm in serious debt (hence two jobs) how am I going to take them all out?
3-How do I know if they are bat-shit crazy?
4-I don't know the protocol on match dates, what is a safe situation on bringing them out?

Any suggestions would be great.

1) Can't fix this one, sorry
2) Do something cheap. Coffee at a coffee shop would run you like $3, a game of darts at a bar (you don't _have_ to drink you know) would be only a couple dollars
3) You don't
4) Anywhere public should be fine. I usually do a coffee shop or a bar

What podcast did you checked out? Cuz I have been on match for about a year and have gotten jack chit. 2 actual dates. I had a few winks and that, but usually they never respond.

Yall would do a lot better on Facebook or Myspace

Um pick up podcast, and tbs. I found what works for me, or at least has in the last week or so, is searching girls who are online. A lot of these girls on match have moved on and given up. So i wink, and send messages to people who are actively looking for someone at that second. So search girls that are online now. As for my message, that's mine you got to dig for you own gold.