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PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 2:44 am 
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OK for me, I got lucky. The girl I was talking to said "Well give me a call when you become famous" andI said "How will I reach you?" And I got the number. I talked to her again, I tried to text her but the numer was a digit off, so I sent her a message via facebook and now things are worked. It was a good coversation but I had to leave so when we were talking about places we had been to I said

Thats cool! Hey listen I gotta go. Ttyl,I guess?

And she signed off....

What now?> I dont see her alot in person


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 2:33 pm 
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Actually it's easy what you have to do next. After you get the number you have to go for the first date. If she sounds excited when you talk to her it is very sure that she wants a date with you.
If she accepts the date is even easier, because you know that she likes you.
At the first date talk with her about interesting things(not school, work, family), be a gentleman(open doors for her, pull chair etc.), and tease her at the same time(about responses she gives to you etc.) this will have a bigger effect. Also lead the way and I mean by this choose the place, the table and so on.
And if you get enough IOI's you can get physical, but this can be on the second or third date also.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 6:45 pm 
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But how come you guys are like.. assuming that she wants to date me? I mean the way the number situation was set up was like this -

Me- Think you could be an actress?

Her- Nah, lol I dont think so. What about you?

Me- Well if I do become famous, I'll be sure to help you out too in your acting career.

Her- THis sounds like a good deal to me! I will be expecting a call from you in 4-5 years from now!

Me- How will I reach you?

Her- haha #######

Was it forced? Dunno. Whats a good opening statement too?


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 2:23 am 
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Ok, so I texted her. We had a really good convo up until the end. I gotta learn how to close better.

I told her that she's interesting and that I want to get to know her better, not to sound weird. Then I said goodnight.

She said- haha okay goodnight.

But in the beginning she talked alot. I asked her if she knew who it was. And she said did. Then I said "Good, I hope it was pretty obvious" and I got back- "It was considering I have your number saved in my phone".

Now for me that was good but towards the it became kinda dry after I said stuff like - Congrats, We should race sometime (She got on a track team).

I am bad at being funny via text, but somehow amazing in person.

She siad- haha def.

I think the biggest thing that stood out was that when I asked her if she had hw, and was busy she told me she had lots.

So I was good in the beginning but failed towards the end. I really need some help here.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 1:47 pm 
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I don't know your situation very well but let me explain you something, I hove it helps...
Girl are attracted to high value status males, and when I say this I am refering to your personality to your attitudes.
Your should respect her, but your value should be at least like her, if not higher which is better. Don't be needy, don't chase her, don't put her on a pedestal act like a high value man.
When you said "Well if I do become famous, I'll be sure to help you out too in your acting career." it was like saying "I am a low value man and I will became famous for you, so I can put you on a pedestal"...that's why she answered " THis sounds like a good deal to me! I will be expecting a call from you in 4-5 years from now!" this meaning "If now you are a low value man, than I don't need you now".
You should stop trying to impress a girl, because you will come across as a low value needy man. The best way to impress a girl is not to try at all, but to act in a different way: tease her, be mysterios, be indifferent a little bit.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 17, 2010 6:49 pm 
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Aiight bro, but she did save my number. I guess that counts. Also, I texted her today

"Yo, if your phones not on, dont say anything. Today is gonna be a good day, going to kick ass in gym."

Its semi funny and I thought it was a good message. Never got a response though, and didnt talk to her yesterday

So, I just talked to her. The conversation always starts out good, I ask her about herself alot. Im always happy and she knows that now I guess. I asked her if she was going to the talent show and she said maybe. Then, I started getting 1 word answers. I asked her if she was busy. But she said yes. So I told her Id let her go. Then she say. okkkay. Maybe Ill see you tonight? I told her that I wont be there but we should hang out out something. "awhh, alright. And yea we should". Soo..............I then added "That would be fun, don't think Im getting all flirty now".

And then signed off


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 18, 2010 4:15 am 
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personally, I like to call instead of text. Several years back I remembered that it was the only thing you can do because phones and texting werent that big. I had to call the house! Then ask the dad if I can speak to her (when I was 16,17).

So, shoot her a text on a monday- wed evening around 9:00 saying ima give you a call in a bit I have a story to tell you. Then call her in 45 min. This, in my opinion, sets you apart from other guys.... because then she'll think about you more for a 100% fact. Also, you can get a lot more info about one another exchanged at a quicker rate.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 18, 2010 11:40 am 
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Ok, Ill try. I just don't wanna come off as creepy.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 8:16 am 
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But how come you guys are like.. assuming that she wants to date me? I mean the way the number situation was set up was like this -

Me- Think you could be an actress?

Her- Nah, lol I dont think so. What about you?

Me- Well if I do become famous, I'll be sure to help you out too in your acting career.

Her- THis sounds like a good deal to me! I will be expecting a call from you in 4-5 years from now!

Me- How will I reach you?

Her- haha #######

Was it forced? Dunno. Whats a good opening statement too?
Fuck what they say u did a good job! very unique casual and different that is what land u the number, some people really take HV to literal, every chick is not going to be like oh shit he said he will help me when he becomes an actor he is a man of low value... I mean I think the concept is based on being confident and not being weak, rather than trying to be all mighty... like I said good pull... your problem lies here - u know your strengths and weaks, if text game isn't your strength just keep it simple, u should of shoot her a few small talk text that built up to a date some like my friend told me about this great (such in such place) we should give it a try how about (time and date)... usually that say ok... from the date since ur better in person u could kill it.. and found out about all that other crap (like that she on the track team and all)... personally I think u have put ur foot in your mouth on this one u might as well put in the L column.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 2:25 pm 
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L column?


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Loss


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 5:27 am 
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Damn. Well, texted her today and she didnt respond. Im holding off


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 6:05 am 
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Damn. Well, texted her today and she didnt respond. Im holding off
Did I call it or did I call it... like I said next time play to your strengths... 8)


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 2:41 pm 
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Ok well, is there anything I can do


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 25, 2010 1:39 am 
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Ok, So I invited her to a film festival. I offered to give her a ride but its always "I'll try to come!". So, I guess it's fair to say she isnt coming. I told her that I wouldnt be so pushy if I didnt want her to join me. Oh well


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