we have been talking on the phone non-stop for 2 weeks and we both dig eachother a lot. for some reason there is a massive connection and we have had a couple arguments already. anyway, she broke up with a guy a while back who she is still in "love" with . he treated her like shit (of course) . but now she is basically sayin she doesnt want to do anything about us. we got into an argument about it last night and i say aright im done and i sign off of msn. then seh texts me sayin why do we have to do this? and proceeds to call me and we talk and flirt for 4 hours until we fell asleep (literally) . now we havent talked all day. my question is. should i let her come to me? cuz thats how i feel. shes the one who said she doesnt know so why should i bother to continue talking to her right?

is this an internet relationship?

no. not at all.

i live in the same town. but shes goin to school about an hour away.

Definately distance yourself from her. Don't make contact with her until she contacts you. Don't be scared of losing her. She has to make the decision.

Beware you could just be the guy that keeps her feeling good before she gets back with her ex. By talking to her on the phone you may be acting like more of a friend. If she's telling you stuff about her ex all the time than it's time to step back and completely distance yourself from this girl. It will save you the frustration when she gets back with her ex.

Also don't talk to her about getting into a relationship. Never start a conversation with a girl about relationships. Wait untill you have her madly attracted to you and then she won't wanna let you go.

yeah thanks for the advice. but thats how i do it. i mean i dont push anything and i dont bring any of that stuff up. shes the one that has been heating everything up and talkin really sexy and telling me what she'd do to me and what we could do together n bla bla. it is definitely NOT a friend connection. but she gets so shady sometimes. i realize she just went through a break-up but its like hey, im 21, ur 19 i've been through it so dont try to f*** with me and play me ya know.

I would definitely pull back a little bit and let her come to you. She is most likely using you for the emotional void that she needs filled after breaking up with her bf.

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