ok so i banged this girl a few times before and we finally get time to go to my house and we are in my room and we start doing it. she did her thing on top, the ask me to missionary but shes not flexible and i couldnt do it properly. so we did doggy and she was making a lot of noise so i told her shut up cause my neighbors can hear her and she still did but not as bad. so i roll over to let her ride and she was riding and i started talkin about what the neighbores would do if they heard us and my sisters gonna be home soon the she got off me and said i turned her off so i sweet talked her but we didnt fuk, she just did oral and did a fine clean up with her mouth. ive talked before during sex with other girls but this one is very picky

-Neighbours can hear her.
'Oh no, you have to watch out with the noise, my neighbours might hear us and that would be bad'. This might not be how you said, but after saying it more than once, in the way you presumably did, it is indeed a turn-off.

This shows fear and a lack of both confidence and dominance. You're also thinking about other things than her. Instead of thinking how beautiful and hot she is, you're thinking of trouble you'll get into if you sister or neighbours hear you. (Etcetera)

-Sister's going to be home soon.
Same thing. You shouldn't say stuff like this during sex.

But I mean, I understand if you have to shut her up, but do it more playful / sexual. Add more kissing or go slower, you can't expect rather 'loud' girls to not make a sound while you fuck her like a truck. (Awesome, I just used that.)

Good luck.
-Valley[/i]