Hey,

I made a similar post in the Sticking Points part but I think the situation's changed now.

So basically met a girl, she's 17 i'm older, we got pretty drunk (well I got VERY drunk) and although nothing happened as I didn't really try because I knew she had a boyfriend, I think there were some IOIs such as her telling me I was gorgeous, us going off for a private chat and hand holding/hugging (I may be exaggerating or she may not have been receptive, I don't remember).

Two days later later I decided to talk to her on facebook and the first thing she said was that she just broke up with her boyfriend, which is an odd thing to say and could be an IOI inviting something, right?

So now I'm thinking that I could be in with a chance. However, I know that this other guy has been gaming her (as I know him and he's said so), and his game is stronger, plus he is also a personal trainer and is quite large. So basically, an AMOG. When I asked her what she thought of him, she told me he was weird and she didn't like him. However, she may just be saying that...or her views may change..or something. I've been told from the responses in the other thread I made to take it slow and not really force it. However, I'm paranoid that this other guy will get there first.

How do I proceed? I was thinking of asking if she wants to meet up again for lunch ASAP, and i'll probably see her at Uni next week anyway but I'm worried this may be too late and lacks isolation opportunities, that it'll just be in a friendzone frame. Should I, or should I really just try and befriend her and take it slow?

Edit: After writing this she went on facebook to ask me how to delete friends. Naturally I went all cocky/funny (is it?) and asked "What did I do wrong? " Turns out she wanted to delete the aforementioned "AMOG" big dude as he was 'weirding her out'. Hopefully that's one less hurdle now. Still need facebook convo tips, I find i'm pretty lame, and I have to remember not to reply so often.

His game is only stronger because you think his game is stronger

If she says hes weird or anything like that, use this line

"Yeah, he's pretty creepy"

Girls hate creeps