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Yesterday I was at this party where I met lots of people from my sports club. People I'm already befriended with.
And among them, there's this girl (let's call her A.), who starts calling me out on this situation last week, when they thought I was hitting on my friends GF (needless to say I wasn't).
So I explained her how I thought about that situation, but she kept talking about it, saying blablabla she turns you on, and you're in love with this other girl (let's call her B.) blabla. It seemed like some kind of shit test to me.
So I said 'yeah, touching her ass really makes me horny (at this point I touched A's ass) and I'm really in love with B but I do think B's sister is way hotter'.
And A. went on and on, dunno what she said but I got a little annoyed, so I responded:
'I like you being jaleous. It shows your human side'.
Now I'm not sure whether this was a good neg, or that it was too rude?
IMHO, it gives her 3 possibilities:
1) She starts laughing and punching me (most likely with HBs, which she isn't)
2) She's offended and walks away. She'll probably rethink what's happened, concluding that she went out of line by talking the entire time about my friends GF.
3) She's shocked and says something like 'wow, so you think I'm not all too human?' (which A did)
After that, we continued conversation for a short period of time, we split up and eventually we both left separately. Not important since I wasn't gaming her.
Altogether she didn't seem all too offended so I guess everything is fine and I said the right thing. But still I'm not sure whether this was a good neg or just plain rude? (and yes, I know I shouldn't neg a non-HB, but her bitch shield was quite up high so she could take it)
Hey Bits! take it easy, I think most guys here must have been studying your situation to see what best to apropriate or say, ok?
I think negging her was a good decision and move made in the right direction, sometime is good to neg non-HB when they act like one to keep them at bay, from what I read from your post she is trying to portray u in a negative light which itself a neg in a way , again its sound like a good neg and somehow cocky to me.
1. u showed her that she is jealous about u chasing your friend GF
2. u initiating kino with her proved u are confident and in control of the your game.
3. she laughing and punching u indicate u gave a good reply to her harsh or jealous offensiveness.
4.2nd and 3rd possibilities u stated shows u took over control of the conversation and put paid to her offensiveness.
5. you negging her shows she need a more solid game to get u interested in her if at all u would.
I think there is nothing to get worried about, If u are interesting in her just keep gaming her till u get what u want. Note that women being what they are, a non HB could assume she is so hot that the world would fall at her feet, to lower her bitchshield, a neg would be needed to put paid to her fantacies. hope this help a bit.