it's the first field report I ever wrote,
26,2,2010 Haifa, Israel

anyway, so it's Purim, it's sort of of like Halloween in Israel.
I was extremely tiered yesterday after work and didn't really though I would go anywhere but an old friend called and called me to go to this Purim party so I said what the heck. Now, this guy knows I'm a PUA although he never saw me in action, fact is that because I started a new job a few months ago I haven't sarged for a long time, and wasn't in a club for even longer.
So we enter this club (which apparently was this goth something party, but I said "HEY..."), and I'm struck with approach anxiety, not even that, I do talk to ppl and stuff but I have some sort of anxiety and girls talk to me and I didn't escalate at all, I just talked. Maybe I got really rusty, so I decided to just enjoy myself anyway, I got myself a drink and got into a good mood and my confidence came back. And then it happen.. damn it... an HB 7, well 6, well 5 or even below, which is a sister of a GF of mine from junior hi (it wasn't a real girlfriend more of a "hold hands walk near the beach do nothing GF"), and this girl is sticking to me, I did danced with her and touched her (nothing silly, I'm touchy when I dance) but I really didn't want her, and she was hanging to me and walking around me like a puppy, I Realise now how all those HB10 must feel when there are guys they don't dislike but just don't want needily running around them. This SOAOGF (Sister Of An Old GF) was cock blocking me! more then that she was trying to kiss/seduce/touch me or whatever ... at some point I said I'm going home (and I really wanted to) but before I came out I ran into this group of GORGEOUS HB9, 9 and a 10!! 2 of them where GF of really old friends of mine (really old, not really good, or bad, just... well friends) and I hanged with them for a while trying to game this HB 10, MAN was she hot!! turned out she was just a tease but damn it, she wore this mask, you know the one that covers on half of the face, and this shit really turned me on. In the end I didn't really closed coz I guess I did became rusty and the HB I wanted were taken and the SOAOGF I didn't want.
I ended the night empty handed, but I enjoyed myself, and it is enjoyable to turn a girl down because you don't want her


things I Learned/Remember/Realized/Noticed/Just Things:
-PUA/Social skills are like any other skills need practice regularly or you become rusty
-I know how hot girls feel when there are needy guys running around them.. don't do it, it spoils the fun for both you and the HB
-Even a night you didn't got some can be an enjoyable night, because you learn, and still have fun
-I have a MASK FETISH, I masturbated like 3 times, and I can't stop thinking of this girl with this SEXY mask

.... replays are welcomed...

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Sweet FR!

The very best part was that you got the realization that you do not have to close just because you can. You are allowed to say no! This shows maturity!

I also like the part where you went out on the dancefloor and just had fun! That is what I do if I am not in a set or if the set bores me. A danceplace is for dancing and the best way to show that you are having a good time without a care in the world is to just dance.

Plus you had a girl there so why not, shows social proof and preselection!

It is a good feeling when a girl is cockblocking you isnt it. It shows that she wants to keep you for herself!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Not too familiar with Israeli holiday customs, but Purim sounds pretty cool.
Sarging. That word's funny.
I'm guessing you were rusty. No biggie. Technically, we're all "rusty" when entering new venues. Just gotta focus on the GOOOOOD. =p.
Anxiety. A toughie. Sometimes I even get the chokes. Usually, a bit of alcohol to warm up is good, then go in (No cheesy lines) with something that YOU would say (If it's appropriate), and see what happens. If they're bitches, let them find their good time. If they're having a good time, roll with it.
♫Gooood tiiiimmes...rollin on a beautiful daaayyyy!
Yep. Low runger. No one wants them, you seemed open. Lechery. Oh well, the objective is not to get away from her, but since she's trying to have a good time with you, just be stoic with her. She'll understand, and go find the good time elsewhere.
I read "SOAOGF" as "SOAPF". I was like "wha?"

But yea, it happens. God smiles and sends a potentially AWESOME time to you.
Acquaintances. Always useful.
And that's ok sir. You did good.
AND THAT'S WHAT THE FUCK IT'S ABOUT LADIES AND GENTLEMEN!
A good time!

No fuck? No problem. You had fun! Victory.
If you get some nook, bonus. (Eventually, when you reach proficiency level, where getting girls is a MUST, then that will be the gauge for a good time).

-Practice makes perfect.
-Uglies kill good times. Remember, good times come from WITHIN. If you're having a good time, others will come for a good time.
-YES. Most important lesson. Live and learn, and Lager.
-Uh...that's a bit TMI there buddy (lol.), but, not bad at all. A good day.

Good, good.

♫Good times, goooooood tiiiiimes.

practice regularly or you become rusty

I totally feel you. I also haven't got too much time to go sarge lately and when I do sometimes I feel like a total chode. My head is not in the right mindset and its in a studying-to-SAT's and solving equations state, not in a social and the right sexual state.

It all comes to practice. Practice is the name of the game.

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"Despite all the giggling, blushing and talk about having a deep connection, it all ends
with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

good FR

all I gotta say is Purim is nothing like halloween, its just a day to go fancy dress lol

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