So i this girl goes to my school i invited her over for this mini party thing one night

and she broght her friend since then we have been hanging out pretty much every week

at least once or twice because i set one of her friends up with my friend and now there dating

anyway i feel like were not really friends yet but they still love to hang out with me every week

so this week were sitting on the couch im being cocky funny with the targets friend so she get up and switches couches

now im sitting next to her my one competant intelagant friend sits down next to me on the other side so i am mushed up against her

but whenever i look at her shes has her legs closed tightly clamped together with her hands in her lap and shes like not really being phisical with me

but on the same side she doesnt pull away when i do anything like put my arm around her lean on her or put my hand on her leg

if anyone knows what im doing please tell me and if im not already stuck in the friend zone and shes just not trusting me or something how do i get her to open up

anybudy

Awesome.
From the looks of it, she likes you. Good.
Probably just needs to get comfy. Wouldn't rush it.
I think you're doing the right thing. Just go with the flow. Don't make things weird. If it happens, it happens.

Just be patient.

Thanks man i thought so but all these hook ups usualy happen so fast

i was just wondering why it was taking so long for me maby just a shy girl

Thanks man i thought so but all these hook ups usualy happen so fast

i was just wondering why it was taking so long for me maby just a shy girl

ps

Still is there anyway to speed up the process of making her comfortable

its the one part of the game im really bad at

alcohol

lol thanks but she doesnt drink

have u tried massive social proofing? that might work

Hmm im intriged what would be a massive social prove like beating up a larger gentalman??

Um, I don't think that's necessary.
She likes him. She just needs to be warmed up, while keeping her image intact.

The, just set up a day to hang out with her, with a good vibe rolling. That's it.