facebook convo with girl at 4 am she was up figured gotta go it


me
hey

3:59am her
heyy

4:00am me
why are you up lol

4:00am her
ii cnt fal asslleep haha

4:00am me
me either

4:00am her
haha

4:01am me
i let someone shoot me with that rubber band after you left
and it hurt like hell

4:01am her
aahah awww

4:01am me
so how was your vacation

4:02am her
gooooddd,, wbu

4:02am me
good just sleeping in is awsome
what did you do

4:02am her
chilleed and wentt out
wbu

4:02am me
same
do you belive in astrology?

4:03am her
eeh
kinda

4:03am me
lol

4:03am her
whyy ahha

4:03am me
whats kinda

4:03am her
likee i checkk my horescopee sometimeess
horoscopee*

4:04am me
like 3 different people have brought it up to me in the past couple days

4:04am her
oh trru

4:04am me
they said im gullible cause im a leo

4:04am her
ohh iddk
ahah

4:05am me
do you ever take those personality tests tho



back round met this girl a while ago see her in the hallways say hi she waves to me and i shot her with a big ass rubber band the other day to be cocky funny

Really Good

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Really Good

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Why did you post that 3 times and your if thats sarcasm i would like some constuctive

critisism not just hey you know you didnt do good asshole so what specificly could i

i have done or not done

I didnt' mean to post it three time. You should consider everything you do really good. But seriously i think it went well.

I used to walk around thinking my shit didn't stink. It helped me grow to actually believe it in a humble way. Be cocky as hell until you actually believe it. You will convince others and you wont have to come off so cocky.

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dude your afc... learn the game and then come back with some question...

asking is this is good or not.. when you didnt do anything other than fluff a couple a word with a chix via a chat system...you didnt do any pickup, so what is good? and what is bad?? you havent done anything than asking a question if she like horoscope...?? wheres the game in doing that?

you should read the player guide first...

I read the game you idiot STOP REPEATING YOURSELF YOU CONDESENDING DICK

AND IT WAS FOUR IN THE MORNING AND I ALREADY KNOW THE GIRL YOU FUCKING

TOOL SHED THIS ISNT AN APROACH THIS IS A NORMAL CONVERSATION THAT I DONT THINK WENT WELL

I HAVE BEEN HERE SO MUCH LONGER THAN YOU READ UP A LITTLE BIT THAN COME BACK AND TALK SHIT

ps NEVER JUST TELL A PERSON THE DONT KNOW WHAT THERE DOIGN PROVIDE NO IMFORMATION WHATSOEVER ON HOW TO DO IT RIGHT YOU CONDESENDING ASSHOLE

PPS i think most of the guys here are afc thats why were here

You know that's the smartest thing I've read today in this post. We're here in this forum to help each other, if you want to argue then by all means take it elsewhere. We're changing people's lives, not making them worse.

Onto the point, I thought that hitting her with the rubber band was pretty funny though the conversation was pretty average. I would suggest calling her, it allows for a more flowing conversation.

Happy gaming
AFCcoffee

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"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

Thanks coffee and your right ima talk to her a lil more i just saw her online and thought it was an oppertunity

Yea, maybe if you wanted to offer advice you should come from a different angle. It might be more proactive. For example instead of telling him what he did wrong in his post simply recoment to him to read the player guide because you believe it will help him.

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Agreed, there would be no point in basically pointing out the bad parts of what he's doing without giving him an appropriate path to recover on.

Happy Gaming
AFCCoffee

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"At the end of the day these are women's lives we're dealing with, not mere entertainment."

"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

ok thanks guys magnum and coffee but this is a serious problem of mine on more than one occasion a girl that liked me Enough to initiate

started talking to me on facebook more than one girl more than one occasion

the atraction level goes from

hey i wanna fuck him Directly to hes some scrub

i dont know why i dont do well online or on the phone should i just tell them ill talk to you in person i hate this iming stuff??

Apologies, we kind of went off topic.

I'll give you advice on not "how you should speak to people online" but how it can improve your chances. Firstly, I think some people would agree that any type of facebook posts or an over amount of time being spent on the internet is DLV. I know this girl in a school I was at 5 months ago, she's basically voted the hottest girl in the school but uses an over amount of time on twitter, facebook and bebo posting silly insignificant things like "I dunno what to have, a cheese beano or beans on toast." See the hidden meaning behind that? She's basically saying "I dunno what to have for breakfast, someone please choose for me because I'm so indecisive" and because of her beauty people respond. These people have DLV.

I tend to refrain from using all my time on facebook, bebo, twitter etc and use my time on the internet more constructively. Such as putting commitment into this community and getting the same amount of investment out of it.

Now the conversation in general, do you ever notice that people online tend to speak in a "typical msn conversation"? Basically, its the opener - hey, hi, hello followed by a question such as hows you? The recipitent will answer and then there won't be an exchange of words but questions, noticed how you done this. Make up an interesting convo and stick to it for several minutes, this generates a comfort level which would be enough of improving your chances of getting her out. A typical msn convo is used by everyone but showing you are different will arouse her interest.

Happy Gaming
AFCCoffee

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"We are what we repeatedly do. excellence therefore is a habit and not an act."

With time you will get better. I am much better in person too. Although text messages allow you to focus and control your emotions more.

In person you are easily able to explain what you mean with facial expressions. Text messages are often misinterpreted just as much as email. Everyone has a different view of the world and each word you say or use means something different than you mean it. You probably lack understanding of the female species in western culture. I recomend you get some female friends and start asking them for advice.

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