I have been going out with this girl for a few weeks now and i really want to have sex with her but she doesn’t seem like she wants too. I really like her but i know that i will cheat on her if i don’t with her. I really don’t want to hurt this girl as i have none her for a while and she is friends with most of my mates. I Know thats she really likes me but i don’t understand why she won’t. I understand that she is a virgin and that may be the problem.

any help would be nice!!

Many thanks

Young_PUA

Well as a guy you have one thing over her... You can seperate love and sex better then she can. If you like her then keep the relatoonship moving forward. If you merley just want to gt laid then move on the next chick. Keep gaming this girl you like but get out and play. One thing you have to remember too is that girls use sex as a means of control. The more they withhold, the more you want them. They know that and use it to thier advantage

make the chick go bezerk!! then make her want it! then don't give it to her... then one afternoon, you two alone at home, on ur bed, SHIT HAPPENS!!!

make the chick go bezerk!! then make her want it! then don't give it to her... then one afternoon, you two alone at home, on ur bed, SHIT HAPPENS!!!

Just keep making her feel comfortable and relaxed with you, progress more a little each time, remind her what she's working towards... most girls go through this, not all of them just jump straight in.

I think I have the same problem here, means that I think my girl is also a virgin (she's 17 to he honest),
and I tried to have sex with her like 3 times.

The first time we were in my car (no so smart i guess), and all of a sudden she's all over me.
so we make out for an hour or so, and things was getting warmed up,
and I mean I was almost fingering her,
and she's saying: "I can't believe were doing this in the car". So I was like "Yeah baby I know, we shouldn't do this.. bla bla bla"
so we just make out so more and nothing happened.

The second time was at my house (I'm learning you see? :>).
and we were watching a movie in my room, and every time I tried kissing her I got her saying: "no, no, let me see the movie." so I did.
after the movie ended I did some push pull with kino and I found myself on the floor making out,
and she stops me by saying "I should be going" and I said "So go.. get up" and she didn't, but finally she stops me again.
and I got up this time (from the floor in my room) eventually. then the same thing happened on the bed, after a freeze out of 10 minutes.
BTW, I find that freeze out, is very hard.

The Third time, it was the next day we were in her place. we planned to cook dinner together.
I came in with an hour late, and she already made dinner for the two of us (and I was like thinking "Damn, I just fucking love this girl")
and she made something hard to cook as well.
so we I moved her to her room, and started making out, this time I got her shirt off (HA-HA!)
and we keep on kissing and she start scratching my chest and licking me and I tried to move he bra.
but didn't succeed to take the damn thing off. that was bummer.
we were doing this while her favorite show was screened on TV, so we were like making out
every time the show stops and when commercials started we continued to make up.
Making a long story short, we didn't have sex, yet. but, I did convey that I am a sexual being, but I'm not
stressed about having sex. Every time she said 'no' I stopped or freeze her out.

My question is, how do I deal with a virgin? are there any special tips or way to behave with a virgin?
We are in relationship for 2 months now, and a sex location is not always available, so every time we have
one, and we don't sleep together, its a real bummer for me.
what do you suggest I should do?

Well you're obviously making progress, things should just continue the way they are. Why can't you find a sex location? What's wrong with her place or yours? Do you live with your parents?

Ah well that's life I guess. Being responsible enough to move out ties in with the whole responsibility of being able to have sex whenever you want.

Until then I believe you have to make do with the locations and opportunities you have. You will get there if you keep using the right balance of comfort and freeze out, seems like you're on the right track.

Conker,
I actually felt that I could do better, but you kinda rise my confidence with this post.
thanks for the answer, I appreciate your time.
If you have anything else, maybe tips or anything I'll be happy.
Have a nice day.

p.s.
I do leave with my mom, and my GF also does, (I'm 19, she's 17).
Further more, need more then responsibility to move out, need some series income as well.

...and being able to obtain that income ALSO requires responsibility

I'm starting to like you.. (IOI - in case you wondered :>)

Hahah...
The most I could ask in return is to be informed on how things go for you. People learn even more from teaching what they know, that's why I'm staying involved in the forums even though I have no questions right now.

...I have a HB10 as my very close friend (in a "perfect" relationship) who is always helping me out with advice on girls - she is just a beautiful, angelic, helpful person - her advice is solid gold and actually works. It's the advice I impart here.

I'll keep you informed, don't worry :>
In general there is a lot of good stuff in this forum. My problem was the reason I first searched for PUA forums in Google..
It's so cool to have a hot chick as a pivot, can be extremely helpful I think.
Small update:
Haven't seen my GF for 5 days now, sense Saturday, for a lot of reasons I'm not gonna get in to this, but it was nice to hear that she missed me though.
Anyway, hope to meet her tomorrow or the day after.
I've got this room in my building, that can be such a great place for sex, but it requires an investment of time and money to make it comfortable enough. I've already started working on it, I hope it will be ready soon cause I'm getting pretty randy this days :>
Have a pleasant weekend all.

just give it time

update with the situation in the "question about relationship" page seven.
(I can't link yet :

Just tell her how you feel about her and your desire to possibly sleep with someone else.