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PostPosted: Wed Mar 03, 2010 7:26 pm 
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"Hi, how are you?".

That's it!
Monumental, no?


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Hahaha.

For some it could work beautifully, for others a complete disaster. It really is all about confidence and the right frame. But of course, I think some openers would work better than this for most people. Hi, how are you? is common and usually creates the image int he woman's head "he's just like them other chumps"


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this reminds me of joey from friends when he says "how you doing" haha


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David D had a guy use that Joey quote as an example in his talk, I think you are remembering that video :)


Well guys, if "Hi how you going" doesn't work for you, then you know you can always use more inner game work. Use it as a testing bed. It's not some unnatainable awesome level - when you can do it, it simply means you have no stupid barriers in the way.


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David D had a guy use that Joey quote as an example in his talk, I think you are remembering that video :)

Truth be told, never seen it. I guess I can elaborate a bit.

Say "Hi, how are you"...
...in your own confident, suave way.

Get my drift?

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Well guys, if "Hi how you going" doesn't work for you, then you know you can always use more inner game work. Use it as a testing bed. It's not some unnatainable awesome level - when you can do it, it simply means you have no stupid barriers in the way.
You mention "Inner Game". I keep thinking "Inner game = Working on YOURSELF".

...I'm look into this.


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LOL..
works when your a good looking guy.. can't really build attraction but assumes it already exists.. if you can follow up with it like its a normal convo with someone you know it can really go somewhere.... I once used this opener followed by a time constrainted convo, and the girl had this huh? look on her face... and then about fifteen minutes later she was walking around the club with her eyes glued to me she was walking around.. so it can go somewhere.. just make sure your not obese or sloppy looking when you do it cuz then you'll be setting yoruself up for some awful rejection..


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There's a free approaching tips audio here
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there's some stripper pick up tips audio there, too.

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Truth be told, never seen it. I guess I can elaborate a bit.

Say "Hi, how are you"...
...in your own confident, suave way.

Get my drift?
Haha yes I know exactly what you mean - I think it's cool that you used the Joey example in exactly the same way they did in the David D video, and yet you never saw it :D That Joey character is cool.

Joey just goes "How YOU doin'?" and it's all about the way he says it :)

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You mention "Inner Game". I keep thinking "Inner game = Working on YOURSELF".

...I'm look into this.
Totally! You will find that the moments you've had the most fun and been the most successful were when you felt the most happy and confident with yourself.


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Haha yes I know exactly what you mean - I think it's cool that you used the Joey example in exactly the same way they did in the David D video, and yet you never saw it :D That Joey character is cool.
No kidding.
Wow, I've definitely came into this PUA stuff from a different angle.

"Hi, How are you", in my view, is all centered around being yourself. That's the key I believe. Anything you do, do it according to who YOU are, AS LONG AS IT WORKS. If not, modify.
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Totally! You will find that the moments you've had the most fun and been the most successful were when you felt the most happy and confident with yourself.
I figured that's all inner game was. Acceptance of self. Acceptance of shortcomings, advantages, and who you are, and how you were born, and what God has given you.

...man I'm hooked now. I wanna learn it ALL!!!!


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The reason why we put so much thought into "openers" is due to most of our nervousness of the open itself. Although it's really not THAT important, there are better openers than others.

"How are you" is far from being a great opener but it's far from being a bad one. . . it's completely neutral. You don't get all skittish about it because hell, who doesn't say, "How are you"? And the girl doesn't get all skittish about it because she's heard this from the old lady on the street, the kid at Starbucks, the old fart at the park, etc . . . (and this is why it's NOT a great opener)

The point of the opener in terms of pu isn't to just initiate conversation. . . the point is to lunge the conversation into fun/sexy/flirtatious topics.


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I like, "You guys look nice so I thought I'd come say hi"


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"Hi, how are you?".

That's it!
Monumental, no?
I disagree..

The best opener in the world could for example be "Hi, I'm Justin Timberlake", but for that to work you would have to be Justin Timberlake. (just chose a random celebrity that i know have dated a couple of hotties).

An even better one could be "Hi, i'm Jesus"(If you actually were Jesus). If being the son of god and having the ability to turn water in to wine doesn't get you laid, nothing will!


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I disagree..

The best opener in the world could for example be "Hi, I'm Justin Timberlake", but for that to work you would have to be Justin Timberlake. (just chose a random celebrity that i know have dated a couple of hotties).

An even better one could be "Hi, i'm Jesus"(If you actually were Jesus). If being the son of god and having the ability to turn water in to wine doesn't get you laid, nothing will!
Funny you disagree, since we're talking about the same "Hi, how are you?", if you know what I mean. ;).


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Anything can break the ice, but as far as quality of openers go, these are pretty lame.


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The very best opener in the world is to go up, smile while doing it. Radiate confidence, feel natural. And say...

Say... 'insert comment here'

that should do it.

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