Not completely.. I meant on your target.

While no target is completely impossible, guys have to realize some are just not worth their time. I've been doing a lot of testing lately and right now i'm using the mirror opener and I'm going to try a couple of my own self-made openers soon.

When people are online, their personalities are much different than in person and girls can act just as much as animals as guys do.

Some of the responses I've gotten from simple openers are -

"Um go fuck yourself"
"Don't talk to me i can get much better than you"
"Um.. but the person in the profile picture is me"
"I have a man! dont talk to me"

Now, of course you could neg and tear your way through the target's bitch shield but no matter how hot they are, in my opinion some of these girls just aren't worth it. The aggressive anti-man girls who you can quickly identify in the first reply are always ones you want to stay away from.

If you get a message from a girl containing aggressive context like the "Go fuck yourself" or "don't talk to me", let it go and run.

These are the girls with very deep psychological issues. While some guys see this as a bonus, this is definitely a HUUUGE no go for me. This is the girl who will stalk down all of your exs and every one on your friend's list to ask questions about you or will call you every 15 seconds until you pick up.

The majority of guys I see leaving comments are in the context of:
"Damn u sexy"
"Lets hook up?"
Along those lines.

At the most you'll get a thank you because they're being nice. If she wants to bone you just because you acknowledged that she was hot.. run.. you're definitely not the first guy to take a dip that week. STDs aren't fun.. I've never had one so I can't share the experience with you but I'm going on assumption here.

Back on topic: I think the problem is guys waste way too much time on girls that just aren't worth the trouble. If you open up on a girl and she's so uncooperative that she's already name calling or trying to prove herself as a higher value woman.. chances are she's a nutcase and she's one of those man haters. Those girls aren't impossible to get because with the right words any wild woman can be tamed but hence be warned.. they are basket cases.

So why do women react in such an aggressive way to simple openers? I mean after all they created an online profile, they had to know they'd get a swarm of guys.

It's not because they don't want to meet new people.. Guys don't realize, girls get beyond the number of messages they can check every day. I've seen a couple of my friend's myyearbook and myspace inboxes. The number of messages beautiful girls get every day is just outstanding.

A few tips I've learned lately:

- Stop sending messages with (No subject). Most girls delete them right away. You can label the title anything you want... literally anything in the world to gain an upper edge over most guys who message them.

- Stop hitting on them. Do you know how annoying it is to them to be hit on? You'll get an "aww thanks" out of kindness but directly hitting on them will get you nowhere but in either one of two zones.

If you want to see what I'm talking about.. go to a crowded bar/club and just observe a beautiful woman. Through out the night, watch how many times she's directly and indirectly hit on in an obvious way. (By the way) women find it fun/funny to shoot down these kinds of guys.. ask them. It's like a sport for them.

(Yep, he's just looking for sex)
(the BFF)

You'll either be classified as a perv looking to score or you'll get stuck in that dreadfully awful BFF zone where they complain to you about all their BFs or other problems.. it sucks.

- Gang sign pictures. Maybe it's just my personal opinion, but I don't get all of the gang sign pictures. You know, the one where you're hanging with your buddies, you've got your arms around each other and you're pointing to each other with the most retarded face possible.

Maybe high school girls find this cute but I've never met an 18+ year old girl who thought this was cool or cute.

- Blank pictures. As for that.. blank pictures.. I'm talking about pictures of just you against a white wall showing no class at all. I used to have a lot of these pictures and it hurts a lot in online dating.

Get some style. Hell. just throw on an Aeropostale/AE shirt for a photo if you want.
Your hair. do something with it.. it doesn't matter what. just don't look like a bum.
Stand up. Get a full body picture. You slouched against your favorite lazy boy just looks sluggish and half-assed.

I'm no expert at this yet but I'm learning little things each step of the way and I had some time to type up a bit. Thanks of reading

Corey