I have read in "the game" something what Roos J. did to a waitress - he "linked?" himself to a sugar so each time she saws a sugar on the table she will remember him?

Well i was thinking about some things i've been doing to girls so im not sure if its nlp and if it is what should i do to improve that.

For example im sarging one HB10 and she allways tells me how i share good vibe and how i think positive all the time... But she is a women and you all know how moody they are how much they change their mood and so on... So when she was in bed mood few times i told her:

"Let's make a deal. Every time when you wont feel great or when you will be insecure you WILL THINK OF ME and you will REMIND YOURSELF what i would TELL YOU, and that is THINK POSITIVE"

now tell me how smart is that? Girls change their mood at least 20 times per day and that would make her think of me and she would always think how i make her feel better and how i share good vibe. As much as she thinks about me its better, but is it good to think about me when she is not in good mood? That is my question.

2nd question is. Linking myself to her favor music. If she wants for example new Justin timberlake album i can send it to her but songs wouldnt be like "Justin timberlake - name of song" they would all be like "Justin Timberlake - Song /Cropua" < and i can say when i was copying them i did something wrong... So each time she will listen those songs she will see my name and if she hears that song in a club later she will remember me again. Is this good idea?

I was also thinking about doing things like that for their favor food for example if she liks milka chocolate . When she is in great mood and having fun with me and i know she likes that chocolate how can i link myself to that chocolate so next time when she will eat it she remembers me ?

Positive associations are definitely part of NLP. I'm reading The New Technology of Achievement and they talk a lot about the power of mental associations. From what I have gathered from this book and from general life experience, there are two things you need to imprint on someone's mind - a memorable experience will create a lasting impression and a powerful emotional response to stimuli to create the positive connection. These are not easy feats to pull off - definitely not for a newbie PUA. But if you were to have a personal gambit that was memorable and could learn enough about her to find out what those hot-button emotional switches are, you have some gold there. It will take some work and I wouldn't expect to succeed the first couple of times you try it.

Well, in the first example you using embedded commands which is part of NLP.

In the music example, I don't know if it's NLP, but you're sure linking yourself with the states she feels when listening to the song.

In the chocolate example, you using an anchor and it's part of NLP.

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'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

Yes your using nlp.

like what mind hacker said, that is anchoring.

Every day people self "anchor" them selves to stuff.
Here is a every day example of music anchoring

this is a small scenerio

woman or man "hey honey this is our song"
Get it? When they hear "their" song they start to recall all their feelings and memories and re live it for that one given moment.

hope that clarifies some things?

Yap, tnx!

The thing is im doing it pretty good naturaly, I just have to work on it so my nlp would be on much higher level