Over a few years I think I've really changed into someone a bit more "attractive" thanks to my decision to start reading up and working on my lifestyle. I have what I feel is a woman that is drop dead hot and rather than being the type of guy that is settling for a 5 or so, I'm sleeping with a 9 and flat out pick and choosing if there is anything worth having a quick side fling with (I haven't found anything yet, my motto is if you are going to cheat around, then cheat up.).

Saturday my girl and I hit up Cine Bristro to catch Shutter Island and as we left I bumped into my old high school girl, Ms. Heartbreak. She was with me during that awkward, 'I'm trying to come out of my shell' stage in my life. She obviously couldn't wait for me to grow up so she left me, after she had already slept with and had started going out with her new man (women are like monkeys swinging from vine to vine, they don't let go of one until they have another one already in their hands).

Anyway, she was around a 6 or 7 when we where together, she might be a 5er now. Point being is when we walked out and she saw me, her jaw dropped. I mean it literally dropped. I'm not Gerard Butler or anything but an improvement from my flabby, nerdy and introverted high school days , yes. Any way, I gave a real quick whisper to my girl that Mrs. Heartbreak was here and I told her I was going to get up and say hello. I was feeling great and you could tell Mrs. Heartbreak was feeling weird maybe even nervous. Anyway, I wont go into the details of the convo cause it lasted for a bit but, my girl decided to take it upon herself to come up and introduce herself right behind me use the line "oh you're Mrs. Hreatbreak, whoa you look nothing like I imagined."

Mrs Heartbreak was burning in jealousy, you could tell. It was great. I mean honestly what a great feeling. Not so much the fact that it was sweet revenge but frankly because it was as if a new man was speaking to this woman who at one point in my life was this almost unattainable sex goddess. Now the tables had turned and this was just great.

I really thought I should put this post on here because, maybe I'm not a smooth operator or the biggest player on earth, but I am the result of dedication to becoming more than what I was. If you are just now getting into the game, don't give up after the first few hardships. Man, honestly its the best feeling on earth when someone from your past just is flat out floored at the 180 degree transformation you have made.

Good luck to you all.

D

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how did you go about making this transformation? im intetrested..

It began when I left high school. I realized I needed to move on and grow up as a man. So I began doing my home work, I read a few books including "Machiavelli's the prince" (weird huh).

I started going to the gym with a passion and I found the people who could help me get in shape (word of advice, don't listen to muscle mags).

A friend of mine had picked up the David D Angelo personal dynamics system and I saw a few videos with him because he really changed his game around with it.

So I did a bit of research, I got burnt by a few phony dating gurus (pissed off about that). I found some good ones and I still use them to this day for a quick referencing.

And then the hard part was taking what I had learned and actually using it. The point is you don't want to learn something as if you are in school prepping for a test. That's just memorizing shit. You need to learn something and commit it to the point where it comes second nature. That means going out, taking the rejections, it meant looking at myself in an almost self inflated way so I could get past my own boundaries. And it has been a few years of moving forward nice and slowly, but thats the key moving forward, even if its slowly. The weird thing is that you will never notice how much you've advanced until people around you begin to either hate you or love you even more.

The key though was not so much just becoming someone who could spit some game and pick up a chick. This was a goal of total transformation.


If you are doing it now and you have committed to transforming yourself, then stick too it. And if you haven't been hurt by getting out of your comfort zone yet then you haven't taken the necessary steps forward.

D

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awesome story man! nice job..

inspiring dude! nice story.

i was a total social loser, with little friends and was always bullied in secondary school. when i graduated, i got into network marketing, a business which forced me to interact a lot, do presentations and virtually, well, socialized. naturally, i was scared (yes, scared) to talk to girls because i thought they would hate me for doing so. then i met a guy who soon became my good buddy, and he taught me quite a few pua stuff and told me to be an "alpha male".

needless to say, i transformed to where i am now, confident, and much happier than before.

Hey, great story man. I'm beginning to read The Prince at the moment for politics class. How did you apply it to you own life?

Yes, personal transformation, I like it. Very inspiring post

I just read this after finally confirming my ex LTR of one year left me for another guy and lied and covered it up. I was super down when I read this and now I'm on cloud 9. Personal journeys can be very rewarding and I was well along my way when I hit a few snags back in November. I woke up and looked in the mirror and was stunned at the man I saw, I'm finally coming into my own and months of dedication in the gym and classroom have begun the transformation of my life. I got my GPA up to a 3.3 and now have the option of attending Law school, I threw out my muscle magazines and proteins shakes, supplements (all just get big quick gimmicks) and dedicated myself to building a natural body. I can't wait to take my shirt off this summer. I'm glad my old girl broke my heart, I'm glad she tore me into pieces because if she hadn't I never would have woken up.

I felt like giving up after the recent news aforementioned, but then I read this and was like yes yes yes! I was overcome with joy. I lost an HB 8.5 and gained my life back and it's getting even better. I also made sure to instill the lesson I learned from the 8.5 in my mind and never forget never make the same mistake twice.

Thanks guys.

It really is a great feeling. Not so much the feeling of revenge but its this great feeling of achievement and confidence that lingers for so long.

Callameister

The Prince is an amazing book in the sense of viewing all human interaction in an unbiased way through natural law. People would say the Prince is an evil book as one person told me, but thats because they do not understand that in this world not all things are butterflies and rainbows as hippies and liberals would make you think.

The point of the prince is to learn how to gain and maintain power in the government. Since government is truelly only the interaction between the governed and those doing the governing, it is only natural to see how it can be used in your every day life.


For example, this is an exceprt regarding the need to be both powerful and cunning:
"Achilles and many other princes of old were given to the Centaur Chiron to nurse, who brought them up in his discipline; which means solely that, as they had for a teacher one who was half beast and half man, so it is necessary for a prince to know how to make use of both natures, and that one without the other is not durable. A prince, therefore, being compelled knowingly to adopt the beast, ought to choose the fox and the lion; because the lion cannot defend himself against snares and the fox cannot defend himself against wolves. Therefore, it is necessary to be a fox to discover the snares and a lion to terrify the wolves. "

Did I explain it plainly enough?

Move forward guys.

D

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When it came to dating I was a slow starter, that's why I can relate to so many and that's why I'm here.
Guys in this day in age need all the help they can get.
My Blog on which dating systems work: http://datingguidesthatwork.blogspot.com