I texted her a couple nights later, she responded in the morning...we kept texting and she kept saying "I just wish you were older lol"...so i'm like "let's just be pals" and asked her to go to a movie thursday night, as "pals" which she agreed to...can i get her over me being younger? How can I go about this? she's a type who likely won't be so touchy feely, just on the record...Thanks!

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First of all, how do you feel about this chick. If you're looking to have a go with her then you need too stop saying "lets be pals" 1. It's a DHV (makes you look immature and insecure about your age) 2. Damage control sucks. What I would do is definitely go to the movie with her and ACT NORMAL, just show her a good time. Don't try to make any serious moves on her at first (obviously) but just gradually escalate throughout the evening. I personally like to take girls for ice cream, it provides for a lot of kino opportunities as well as tension builders. Afterwards if the both of you go back to either's place keep up the kino and push/pull to get that sexual tension going, k-close and so on.

Another tip is to hit her with some witty replies to when she says "you're so young", it makes you look quite mature for a 19 year old which is what the majority of girls her age are looking for. You have to get comfortable with saying stuff that you know may be out of your maturity range but it's so liberating once you get in the hang of it. That's probably one of my favorite things about the game because I absolutely love older women. It totally throws them off guard because while you may be carrying on a conversation with her all she's thinking is "Did he just say that? He just said that. He's actually pretty hot!" Stuff like that.

Something else to try to help with practice with older women which I personally find both fun and insightful is going out with some girlfriends who might party with their moms who are divorced. I know it may sound creepy but in my opinion it really isn't, you really learn a lot from older women and I've found that they can be really good wings. Plus it's loads of fun because they really don't care about what other people think. One of my most memorable experiences was when I was on holiday from school and I met with some friends and their moms at a wine bar. The whole night I was working my friend's moms, practically shutting out my friends and owning the set; thus leading to some mother/daughter attention competition. I got a lot of advice about older girls and HUGE confidence boosts (not the ones you get from your mother). What was the best confidence booster in all of this? I WAS BLATANTLY GAMING MY FRIEND'S MOMS RIGHT IN FRONT OF THEM AND THERE WASN'T ANYTHING THEY COULD DO ABOUT IT. THEY KNEW IT, THEIR MOM'S KNEW IT AND THEY ALL KNEW I KNEW IT. It was simply amazing!

Plus mom's talk to other mom's (automatic DHV with daughters)


Other than that, good night, good luck, and godspeed

Hey, thanks so much for your help. So by Witty do you mean like....sexual innuendo or like, advanced topics on the political spectrum...I know this is a little walk-through ish but Im kind of a rook. If you could give me an idea of what you meant that'd be great. Thanks!

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