hey everybody

I have a problem here, because i'm not 18 i can't go to CLUBS but i go to little party's for my age( i'm 16), 14-20 years old.

the problem is that the party's the room isn't that big. So how can i talk against a girl with that sound? At the bar i can't talk because the bar is also very close to the music and it's still loud there.

And if you ask a girl in the loud music: Would you like to talk somewhere where it is quieter, they will say:
a) Yes ok ( if you good approach and confidence and body language)
b/ No, i rather want to stay with my friends or i am waiting till my friend is back or ...
c) No! ( and refuse rejection -.-)


And mostly at noisy party's answers B and C are often more.


So what can i do to have a good conversation at noisy little party's without repeating my story or sentence for 2-5 times and screaming in her ears xD


thank you ( sorry for my englisch , isn't my first language xD)

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ask for their number and talk to them some other time.. if the music is that loud then your at a dance party, so dance with them

hmmm yeah i can do a dance thing opener like:

Hey sorry that i bother you but i have to say it: most people dance on the beat but you prefer to dance off the beat, why? ( with a big smile )

she will: Nooo i can dance very well or Noo it isn't or ....

Me: Ok dance again for me, i will watch ( than she dance again a little bit)

Me : hmmm nonononononon still wrong, wait, let's dance together, than it's good ( a little bit touching and coming very close too her)

and than start a conversation or ask her number.

is this good one?

X-L

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