so i met this girl in the laundry room. i opened with a situational opener, asking her what her shirt said, since it had stuff written on it (not a compliment so much as a comment). i was idly running game, i wasn't actually trying to pick her up, but we got into an amazing conversation. i ran C&F, busted on her, some kino, talked about stuff, and held a great conversation. (wouldn't it be great if i remembered it and could insert a transcript here?:?)
when the laundry was done, i ended up getting her number. i called her 2 days after getting her number, and we had a great conversation, ending my interaction with a real time constraint (an FTC may have been effective, but unnecessary when i had an actual legit thing i had to go to) and inviting her to lunch. she seemed enthusiastic about it.

i waited a day and then called her. we talked, and she said she was going to have to cancel, and didn't give a reason. i interpreted this as disinterest and didn't ask. we talked, but it felt a little disjointed after that, but it wasn't awkward, just not up to the standards of the previous conversations we had, and then she said she had to go.


what went wrong?? did i push the envelope too fast? did i leave too much time between calls? is there any reason you can think of that this screwed up? maybe it's the inevitable cost of picking up a girl and trying to ask her out.

also, do i give up and write it off now? or should i pull back and call her, but be more laid back and heat things back up, to solidify things more?
from some things i've read in pickup, i feel like i give up too fast. what would you recommend i do?

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She's just not interested.
probably found somebody else, I defo would leave alone.

No harm in gaming her if you see her again but I wouldn't go out of my way to do so.

there is a feeling of self-sufficiency that makes us unwilling to take the necessary help of others.

Leave it alone, till you meet her again. Start gaming her again and see where it goes from there. Some girls need to actually see (touch) you to keep that good connection going with you, if you called her a few times without setting up something face to face, that makes some lose interest and cancel on you or whatever.

-Rule for myself: Whenever I #-close, always make sure she can already see the Day 2. Make at least somewhat of a plan on what you're going to do, doesn't have to be that specific. This can be completely bullshit by the way. You can tell her you'd like to have lunch at this little coffee shop you know, and when the actual Day 2 happens, take her out in the evening for a walk on the beach and dinner at a restaurant.

-Rule for myself: Fix the day 2 at the very first phone call, and after that keep phone contact to a minimum till the actual day 2.

Though I can imagine a good phone conversation can actually work in your favour. Good luck.

-Valley.