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| Clovis | PostPosted: Tue Feb 09, 2010 1:53 am | |
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Posts: 10 | | At the bar, I saw a guy trying to get a girl to hold his drink; she complied.
If it was a woman trying to get a guy to hold the drink, it would be a shit test; she would be testing to see his social value.
But, if a guy is doing this, is it a shit test? Would his purpose be to test to see her social value?
I know the girl who this happened to said it was a turn-off. I can see how it might be kind of alpha, because you're directing others to do things.
Any thoughts?
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| J_J_Okocha | PostPosted: Tue Feb 09, 2010 4:47 am | |
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Posts: 192 | | I do this sometimes as a place holder, just in case i wanna go somewhere right quick such as the bathroom it gives me a reason to go back to the chick i was talking to. In my opinion i see it as an ioi because she is willing to hold my drink as i go somewhere else and she waits on me to come back or even sometimes comes to find me.
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| wanderbred | PostPosted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 4:04 pm | |
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Location: Canada | | you're right... it's usually a shit-test if a girl does it and a compliance test if a guy does it, i guess it depends who's gaming who.
if a girl ask you to hold the drink either cleverly say no:
"do I look like your shirpa?"
or say sure, and then mishievously glance at her as you drink her drink. she get pissed, but not really pissed. just tell her that what she gets for trusting a rebel like you. however you may want to replace the drink later in the night to show your not a total ass.
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| goodtimes09 | PostPosted: Mon Mar 01, 2010 5:25 pm | |
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Location: L.A. County | | I wouldn't pay for a drink to replace hers later in the night.
Think of the fact that you drank her drink as her putting an investment in you which is a good thing. If you buy her a drink she gets a return on that investment much earlier than you'd want her to.
If you don't buy her a drink AND drink some of hers, she may use it as part of the reason to backwards rationalize why she should see you again. She wants that drink you "owe" her.
It would just be another cog in your seduction machine.
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