| A good night out...
So I havent really been out just to sarge in a while and I just decided to take a step back and relax for a while. Things were going well and I was just getting afraid that I had lost my touch. It was annoying me no end and I realized that I had to get out there or end up like a KJ. So imagine my happiness when my wing calls me and wanna go out sarging. Happy happy joy joy!
So I run from work, go home, throw on some wonderfully ridiculus outfit, furry collar and shit. Shades since I have been partying too hard and not sleeping enough so my eyes start to look like small red coinslots. Anyway, I join my wing in a bar half an hour later.
As I enter the bar, I immediately get noticed of course. I know a few people since I am a regular and well, I order a beer and a burger and sit down with my wing to recap the latest news. After a while I start chatting with a girl at the table to the right of me, she is pretty nice, not that hot really but anyway, whatever, something to do while I finish my burger.
It appears that she is the marketing manager of some condom company and we start chatting about that.
Me: Hey thats, great, you probably saved my life more than once.
She: Giggle.
It all end with that I get her email and facebook contact details. Whats up with facebook nowadays??? Everybody lets it replace the old phone number stuff.
Anyways, she asks me if I wanna be a condom evaluator. Im like, a what? So it appears that Im gonna help her try different brand new condom styles and give her my thoughts on them. Sounds great. Come on, cooler title does not exist. I evaluate condoms.
So cheek kiss and goodbye, we are going out clubbing and sarging for real.
My wing is in the mood for sarging but hasnt reached his peak energy level yet. So we enter the club and immediately run into one of the regulars, great, social proof. Chatting a bit and going on towards the bar area.
In the bar we chat a bit about how to approach and we have a mini workshop on how to stand and be powerful. I point out that it doesnt matter what you look like as long as you feel confident and strong. Unfortunately, this is a big deal for my wing who has major inhibitions in that area. Polite, shy, etc etc. Trying to break his AA.
So I have been standing close to a set for about 15 minutes and since I am wearing shades, fur collar and a long black coat I look very strange. I tell him that rejection is not bad, in fact watch me crash and burn.
I just go up to a 4set with 3 girls in it, they are about 10 years younger than me but what the hell (yeah Im old). So instead of crashing and burning, I open the guy, he tries to AMOG me and I blast right through his attempt by being genuinely a great friend and a nice person to him. He cannot handle it so he basically hands me the set on a silver platter. He doesnt know of course that if I can handle his AMOGing I will be more powerful than he could ever imagine. The circle is complete, now I am the master. Luke I am your father.
The set bores me so I eject and move on. I find my wing waiting for me and he starts talking to me (about 2 meters from the set). I just tell him "walk and talk walk and talk, never just eject the set to stand next to them and talk about them". So we move on.
My wing opens a 2-set and I go in to wing him. He has a good opening but get stuck in A2. Funny thing is that one of the girls tell me "Hey you can really talk to girls", I just respond, "Yeah, well I would be surprised if I couldnt".
So I go for the next set, a 5-set with 4 girls and a dude. I just open with a cold reading about where they are from. Im wrong but Im in.
I keep waiting for my wing to come in but he is frozen with fear and I chat up the girls. We fluff for a while about her home town (Chicago) and we trade a little info about what we do for a living. Nobody comments on my completely ridiculus outfit. I put in bits and pieces of DHV info in the conversation as I see fit. You can really tell what she is getting at. One of the girls is a bit suspicious and stand a bit away from the group and watch me with a very doubtful look on her face. I ignore her and talk to the guy. We chat about whatever. Luckily, everything that normally comes up in conversation is a DHV, my life is a DHV story. Sorry, no bragging but yes, it is.
The girl from Chicago (blonde cute) start to give me heavy IOIs. This is where my wing comes in, terrible timing. I introduce him and expect him to carry his own weight. He completely fails to engage the others in conversation and just as I start feeling that this is going straight downstairs he chooses to eject.
At this time another girl has entered the set and talks to my target. The doubtful girl sees her chance and goes for me. She is completely changed and I have never in my life got so many IOIs in such a short time. She is cute and blond as well. She is mirroring me, touching her hair, her feet points towards me and she is leaning in. She agrees with everything I say (with a passion) and above all she comes close, very close, like kissing close. However, my target is in the group. I realize that the doubtful girl has placed herself between me and the rest of the set, she has isolated me. So far it all goes well. I am just going for the close when my wing enters! FUCK! I gotta train him! He just comes in to say that he is going home. Since my set just disintegrated spiritually I say, Ok, sure Im going too. And he is like "No stay if you want no problems." Im like "Fuck! If you just would accept my choice, now is not the time to be polite, just play along, Im looking for a way to eject and close not to discuss the subway timetable with you, just accept what I say and give me five minutes." That is what Im thinking not saying.
So my wing comes in and brings down the mood in the set, the magic is gone! Annoying!
The man has got game, he knows it in theory but he doesnt have the guts to use it. He knows what a wing is supposed to do but whenever he feels scared it gets the better of him! CRAP!
Anyways, I timebridge the doubtful girl and we decide to meet at the same club in one week, same weekday, same place.
After that I go into my old set and just tell them that they are cool, they are welcome to hang around with me and party whatever. The IOIs are still there and I get a close (the girls are not from this country, been here just 2 weeks so no cellphone yet), but again facebook. I hate facebook closes, they are a waste of time. So I get some cheek kisses from the girls and a meaningful look from the Chicago girl.
Whatever, I did not numberclose but I built a lot of attraction and things would have gone very well if I could just remember do one very important thing. Before going out, discuss every possible situation and plan of action with your wing!
That is the lesson I wanna teach you today! If you go out with a wing! Make it absolutely clear what your wing rules are! If he is gonna crash your set he may as well stay out of it. If he is going in he has to be able to carry his own weight! No fear!
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