I've been flirting with S for a few weeks now.

We met at the club when i had a girlfriend. After me and my gf broke up, i met up with S at the club and we danced for most of the night, lots and lots of kino, got her number in an "under the radar" way and made plans to hang out, then kiss closed, just a peck on the lips though. we've been texting daily since

We hung out last week at my house--had dinner and watched a movie--unfortunately i choked and didn't do any kino, but she still continues to flirt with me via text, definitely sending me (in some cases very direct) signals that she wants to have sex with me.

Here's the problem, earlier this week i asked her to come to the movies with me (tonight), i also asked her if she was going to the club on friday (last night). S said she would be at the club and that i "owed" her a dance. I thought to myself "perfect! i can start the kino escalation and kiss close the night before our date" BUUUUT she flaked.

We're still on for tonight, the plan is she's going to come to my place, we'll drive to the movies and then come back for some ice cream.

How can i start making physical contact with her without making it akward?

Thanks,
-HiLo

http://www.scribd.com/doc/16768511/Vin- ... ion-Ladder

just wanna say that ladder is genius - i never knew how to touch girls properly and now i have -them- touch -me-.

Start with playfully touching her when you are making a point or when she says something clever.

Also one I like doing: read her palm. It gives you an excuse to hold her hand while gently stroking it with your other, which can go to the wrist slightly as well. Not to mention its a huge dhv! If your getting enough ioi's then go in for the kiss!