yeah so i've hung out with a girl a couple of times. she's a 7 and seems pretty straight-laced. she has offered to "tutor" me and my intention is to go to her dorm sometime in the next couple/fews days. from what i've gathered she's probably fairly inexperienced sexually and almost certainly would take time to f-close. any special routines or whatever for girls like this? it seems inuitive to me that there are more efficient ways to handle this situation other than the usual techniques.

I think I read in the mystery method somewhere that the "Library type" girls which you seem to be describing respond better to cocky and funny lines.

Good, that's what I've been doing. Hahaha, gotta share this one with you guys: she made some comment about having her contacts in the wrong eye, so that one was under-focused and one was over-focused. I asked her what over-focused vision was like and if it meant she had x-ray vision.

"Yeah, I can see through your clothes right now."
"Oh so that's why you're smiling."

Don't care if that sounds lame it was the proudest moment of my day.

cocky-funny and kino a shit load. Don't be afraid to take control of the situation. Make her feel comfotable by finding out what she enjoys and feeding it back to her

Example:

You: This studying is taking it's toll. I need to relax for a second. What really relaxes you?

HB: I like to lay down and listen to music

You: You like to lay down and listen to music?

HB: Yea

You: That relaxes you? laying down and listening to music?'

HB: HAHA yeah, why?

You: No reason. I like to lay down too but I usually fall asleep. That is unless I got some good music on. Then I am pretty relaxed.

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Yeah I've been doing cocky-funny (which has gone over well) and have established a bunch of common interestes between us. The only thing I've done wrong is virtually no kino, which is a problem I have in general but this should be good practice. When I isolate her how aggressive should I be in going for a k-close? Actually, I'm sure I can get that easily... I'm just uncertain about how to go about the f-close. I imagine it will take a few interactions before I can confidently move in, is this a valid assumption?

If you've spent that much time with her and HAVEN'T kissed her yet . . . your chances of kissing her now are almost nill.

it seems to me that if you're sure that you can get the kiss then start with that. you have f-close in mind but if she's less experienced there's nothing like foreplay to get her excited about it and wanting it. she might not get laid a lot but I bet she helps herself. start some kino go for the kiss and work your way up, or should I say .... down?

I agree with Tripp.

How to salvage?

Start flirting within the context of your studying. Say something like "Wow, that TI-83 calculator makes you look hot" playfully and gauge her reaction. If she says something funny or cute go give her a hug and say "oh you're so cute, I could just eat you alive!"

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