I've never really understood why guys take their girlfriends out clubbing as I've never done that or will do. Why would you want to have other men checking her out and maybe grabbing her ass, trying it on with her and you could maybe even get into a fight over her? This is why I don't do it, leave her home! People go clubbing to hook up, so whats really the point taking her. What do you guys think?

Yeah it's not good to go reguarly clubbing with your girlfriend I think, but if you don't do it all and she wants to, then you're just going to bore her.

So the only way to conquer this is to be the most attractive guy at the club, and not to be too clingy. If she's flirting with another guy, IGNORE HER and do the same to another girl. She'll come back.

Dude your trippin. Of course its important to take your girl out, like the guy above me said, but you should have enough confidence in yourself that you shouldnt have to worry about other dudes hitting on her. Shit dudes try to hit on my girl all the time, but I just find it funny. I have enough confidence to know that she isnt even thinking about anyone else there but me.

If your in a relationship where you have to worry about your girl flirting with other guys or possibly hooking up with other guys then maybe you shouldnt be in that relationship. Personally I think trying to keep your girl at home under lock and key sounds kind of like you have trust issues.

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Eeerm. Girls go out because it is fun. Not to pick up guys. (Not only at least.)

They enjoy the environment and so should you. So some loser tries something, well deal with it. If you never take her out she is gonna leave you for being boring.

And I dont understand why you posted this in the Lay reports section...

Agreed.

Yeah you should take her out.

Actually I once saw this video where AFCs trying to hit on your girl is seen as a good thing.It lets her know how cool your are and when he totally crashes and burns she'll know how lucky she is to have you.

Also , when guys interrupt your set it's also a positive thing (unless the guy would be more alpha than you) but what you should do is put him out there pick the girl apart and wrap her arm around her and say something like "Let's see what this guy can do" and make sure you make the guy stand apart from you and the hb who you have your arm around and make him stand in an open spot , mostly he'll just leave and it will create the team feeling with you and the HB and it will put an exclamation mark on your alphaness.

well, it can be a fun thing to do, especially if you're out of ideas on what to do on a friday night.

still, i wouldn't do it. i'm not worried about AFCs hitting on her so much as seasoned PUAs who practically spend their lives in nightclubs honing this very specific type of game. i know what is possible, and i don't want it to happen to me!

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I hear what your saying and it's not about not taking her out but clubbing, of course you have to do fun exiting things but the only reason people go out clubbing is to hook up. It's not about worrying if she is going to hook up with anyone either because she won't , girls can get you in a lot of trouble too. Depends on who is hitting on her but I've seen it happen, some guy comes trying to chat her up and she is being a bitch saying something like fuck of looser. Then the guy starts calling her a ugly slut,saying I bet you have a bucket pussy and I bet you look like a dog under all that make up on your face go home you whore, then what will you do? You either stand up for her and probably get knocked out later by him and his mates or don't say anything cos you know you will get beat up, then you look like a punk for not defending your girl. Either way your in trouble just by her being there, you did nothing. It's not about being insecure or worried about her cheating or guys hitting on her. I don't keep her under lock and key, just not take her clubbing of course we go out and do everything people do.

I hear what your saying and it's not about not taking her out but clubbing, of course you have to do fun exiting things but the only reason people go out clubbing is to hook up. It's not about worrying if she is going to hook up with anyone either because she won't , girls can get you in a lot of trouble too. Depends on who is hitting on her but I've seen it happen, some guy comes trying to chat her up and she is being a bitch saying something like fuck of looser. Then the guy starts calling her a ugly slut,saying I bet you have a bucket pussy and I bet you look like a dog under all that make up on your face go home you whore, then what will you do? You either stand up for her and probably get knocked out later by him and his mates or don't say anything cos you know you will get beat up, then you look like a punk for not defending your girl. Either way your in trouble just by her being there, you did nothing. It's not about being insecure or worried about her cheating or guys hitting on her. I don't keep her under lock and key, just not take her clubbing of course we go out and do everything people do.

Wow nice contradiction there.

Ok, My girlfriend gets hit on all the time. Clubbing or not. Walking home in her dirty work clothes or in her sexy club clothes. Should I lock her in my house just to be sure she doesn't get hit on? I'll let you answer that one.

I'll go dancing with her becasue I like it and so does she. While we are there, she will get hit on like crazy. She is good looking and dances like a godess (she likes to dance, hence the clubbing and the being good at it). Does that bother me? Of course not. I KNOW she loves me and will come back to me every night. I also know her and trust her as much as she knows me and trusts me.

I'm the best thing that has ever hapenned to her. I'm not saying that because that's what is written in David DeAngelo's newsleter or in Vince DiCarlo's material. I'm saying this becuase I'm the best thing that has ever happened to her. Why should I be insecure to take her out? Why would I be insecure of her being hit on?


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ok, read your 'she is going to get in trouble so I'm going to get beaten part' ... honestly I don't know where you are going clubbing, but i've been going to bars for a long time and honestly never been in a situation that you described or seen a situation that you've described. Either you are hanging in the wrong places or have a agressive attitude when going out (or your girl does).

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Hey hey man what planet are you living on? And how can I find a good apartment there?

This is so not true. I have a lot of friends that go out just to have fun.

So you are afraid some guys will try to hit on your girl? Yeah that may happen but if you cannot beat them even though she is your girlfriend you are doing something wrong. You cannot keep her locked in for the rest of her life just because you are afraid she might run off with a better guy.

Try to be a better guy instead.

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That's not a contradiction!
You guys have to understand it's not about worrying she will get hit on or if she will cheat or insecure or anything like this because I am no worried at all REALLY!
It's more about having to look out for her than being worried about her getting hit on. She is not a fukin prisoner, she works goes out and does all the normal stuff girls do, so if I was worried about cheating I would be worried all the time.
I just choose not to go clubbing with her.
Some girl in a club walked past a group of boys and one of them grabben her ass then her boyfriend tried being a hero, saying did one of you just grab my girls ass, they said yeah and fukin what you gona do about it pussy? He just walked off looking like a looser in front of his girl.
And before you ask, that was not my girl, I was just there watching.

I really dont get what the problem is. If you are not worried about her getting hit on, why do you need to look after her?

When I go out with a special lady I just plant myself whereever I want and tell her. She can go around doing whatever she wants to. If I feel like it I will come with her. Treat her like any other party person, I enjoy partying with other people apart from myself. Its a partyfriend you kiss. What is wrong with that? It is fun to go out! It is fun to have a girl at your side! You are not making much sense.

Great fear I sense in you.

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Great fear I sense in you.[/quote]

Yeah I guess I'm kind of strange in my thinking, I get exactly what you're saying and I like going out and having fun and a nice lookin woman with me but, not my lady. I guess it's like how you look out for your sister kinda thing.