There are always tons of HB's isolated, studying, often with their headphones in all around campus. Should I approach the ones that look busy anyways?

Another thing is that although they are isolated, there are always other people studying quietly VERY close. I feel like the entire room would hear the conversation.. I assume the answer is just to not care anyways? Kinda weird when 10 people hear you explicitly say that you in fact just came over to the HB's table to flirt. Which is another thing. They are always sitting. Should I immediately sit opposite of them, or stand for a bit during the opener?


Cheers

I would like someone to answer this I've been wondering the same thing.

"Watcha workin on?"

"Your cute but are you interesting?"

"You look familiar" (only if they do...)

Im always a little hesitant because I don't want to disturb somones work, but fuck it, worst case scenario they are busy and say so.

The people all around makes it easier, move in close, whisper real close, you can also 'bounce' them to a more isolated spot after some attraction is built.

I would like to hear about this too.

I am not yet good with day games at the moment, and everything I think about it, I feel like if I move in and everybody else is studying, say in a library, then it makes me look like the awkward person because you are disturbing the scene. It does not make you look like someone that "fits" with the environment. I am not sure if I am suppose to standout though.

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Remember there's no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.

This is how I make my bones on campus.

Rules to approach, listen up:

If a girl is in a QUIET study zone--do NOT open. You will make yourself look like a nuisance.


If a girl is sitting in a lounge area, even if she is reading something or listening to music--open, open, OPEN. I have found that almost EVERY college student would rather be in a conversation than reading non-urgent material or listening to songs they've already heard.


Also, if a girl is eating lunch alone or with one other friend in a relaxed manner--open.


Basically, if a girl looks busy and has head phones on, chances are she is. Her mental state won't be able to process you. Unfortunately, if she is completely consumed with studying for a test next hour--can you blame her? As far as sitting down goes: ALWAYS SIT DOWN, even if its only for a few minutes. Don't be an asshole who talks down to people.

Striking when the iron is hot is the key to day game.

If it's in a really high social pressure area try and do it primary school style and write her a note on a piece of paper then pass it to her.

something like "hey i didn't want to embarrass you but I thought you were cute"

then go from there. if she likes you she'll play along =D.

i do this on the train a lot but type it onto my phone instead.

Yeah i would love to hear some more about college day game. I havent been opening many girls consistently in the day, except for in lines, on busses, and in elevators. pretty much when I can't find a reason not to.

How would you go about a group of people in a crowded place like the main food court?

Or opening moving obstacles, like girls you're walking past that give you the up down and smile? (I usually stop them and tell them to stop being shy and say hello next time)

Anyone have any ideas or better ideas?

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can i ask why you want to go direct instead of indirect while at college??

if you approach and she gets mad who cares, you'll never see her again

If you feel oneness with others you will gain more happiness from your success.

are you dumb? this isn't a bar or a club he's talking about

Depends how big the school is. I'm at a pretty small college and if I don't want to talk to someone they're easy enough to avoid.

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