Hi (i really recommend this routine, its excellent, long post but seriously, read it)
I came up with this routine during a day 2 I had, and it works well because it's not only a routine that confirms to her why she is attracted to you, it also has a built in test to see where you're at with this girl.
Begin by telling her that when you started your job you had to take a personality test, not one of these free useless ones, it was a really detailed analysis conducted by professionals.
Go on to tell her that aswell as a detailed description of yourself you have a graph profile of yourself, where the personality is split into 4 key traits. It shows you how strongly you demonstrate those traits. However it is all relative to you so you cant score highly in everything, it just shows what you are skewed towards.
Now explain the 4 traits (by the way this is a real test that I did take, however I editited what the letters meant to set this up to make you look better)
D Dominance Describes the way people deal with problems, assert themselves and control situations.
I Influence or Social Intelligence Describes the way people deal with others, the way they communicate and relate to others.
S Steadiness Describes temperament - patience, it expresses the happiness with the day in day out mundane, no change, lifestyle, eg a receptionist would have a high S because they dont like change (btw...make sure she is not a receptionist when you use this example !...)
C Compliance Describes how hung up on details you are, someone with a high C generally likes clean cut rules and processes to follow.
Now the important thing to do here is STOP. and wait for her to speak.
She will without a doubt say "SO! what did you get???"
Here they should be really hooked in, so I say "Well..." and take a slow sip of my drink to keep them in this needy state for just a fraction longer... "I got two of them being high, which 2 do you think I got?" This is your built in test, if youve been playing things right, she should respond with D and I. If she doesn't then you havnt been displaying your attractive male qualities well enough and you need to rethink your tactics. By the way, even if shes not entirely sure, most will choose DI because they are the best sounding on the list.
When you tell her shes correct for choosing DI, what will happen in her mind is that she will then be able to rationalize her feelings for you and be more sure of them, shell be thinking "Hmm before I THOUGHT he SEEMED be dominant and influencial but if thats what the experts say it backs me up so I can be SURE of my reasons for liking this guy, he IS dominant and influencial" Thus strengthening her attraction, she will be far less likely to think "why do I even like this guy?"
Then go on to explain what you got for the other two, say S was really low, and then say, I think its because I really dont like boring conventional mundane things, Im adventurous and like to do new and unique things. Even though youre saying this one was low, it is still attracting her because S is a negative trait to have (in this context) and your mixing it up a bit by saying it was low, if they were all good traits to have and you said they were all high you'd be alerting her bullshit alarm, but this way you slip another attraction spike in under the radar
Finally say that C was fairly in the middle, first reason for this is to also slip the whole routine in under the radar, it makes it seem more real that not everything was Positive in her eyes or not everthing was high or low. Second reason I beleive it grounds you a little, the thoughts of you being at highs and lows might make her think your personality is all over the place and the extremes, saying this one is in the middle makes you seem like a more rounded and complete person.
And that is it! Responses Ive had afterwards are things like "wow I really enjoyed that" or "wow i find those things really interesting, im glad I got it right, I could tell that about you!"
Let me know your experiences with this,
Dorian