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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 9:41 pm 
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I was gaming this hot blonde girl stood at a bar, i started just chatting sum random crap, gave her a few negs and busted on her for having a posh accent. Got a few IoI's, giggles bit of kino etc. but then i cnt remember how it went i said something like haha shame youre completely not my type or something along those lines. She responded to this by saying something like "Haha i usually find that guys i feel arent my type really are my type". Now in my head i said to myself wow this could be a major IOI here but i carried on trying to be a bit cocky and sarcastic and said.. errr i usually find girls that i think arent my type really arent my type haha.. or something along those lines. Now boom she was gone, didnt even say goodbye or anything, got her drink and left, and i was like ah fuck.

What did i do wrong? how could i have done this better?

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 9:57 pm 
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a swing and a miss!! ouch man you got too cocky I guess. NEXT!

Edit: for constructive purposes, maybe you could have asked and what types do you think are not your type but really are?

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And what types would that be?


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 22, 2007 7:40 am 
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after she said what she said i would have laughed and continued talking about something else

you had her when she replied with what she did, but you snapped the fishing line when you contradicted her response. you should calibrate your cocky funny stuff fit each situation.

hang in there and remember what happened and learn from it.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 23, 2007 12:50 am 
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An important part about being a PUA is know when to respond to things and when not to. Certain things that a girl will say to you that are IOIs (such as her saying guys that aren't her type generally are, meaning that she's trying to imply she probably is your type, duh) you should just act as if you didn't hear it and continue on a different topic. You got her to show her hand (that she's interested in you), so now you know you are succeding and you just need to keep at it.


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