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I definitely need to work on my kino. It feels so awkward touching girls but I am working on that.
Situations are only as awkward as you make them. I obviously don't know you are person, but as for me, I am naturally a touchy person when I talk or converse. This means that when first meeting someone, the
frame I set in their mind is that I am
touchy... this means that through out the night, when I initiate kino intentionally, it's not awkward or out of the blue. In fact, it's expected since I am conversing with them and that's how they perceived me when first meeting me.
The key is to be upbeat and touchy in the beginning so later on it's not awkward. If you NEVER touch at all through out the night and then all of the sudden try to get touchy, that's when it becomes weird or unexpected - it catches them off guard which may lead to hesitation to comply or defensiveness.
Be hands-on from the start and it becomes congruent and consistent with the frame they have of you in their mind. They are okay with you touching since that's just how you are.