Great advice Cropua:I usually follow your posts over the past month or so.

Taking a female friend etc. to the library would definitely be a power mover.

That'd definitely flip the pre-selection switch;subcommunicating to her that I have other women in my life-even spark a bit of jealously as I ignore the target(the librarian).

Great advice Cropua.

But I'd also broken a cardinal PU rule today(fuck!)!

I'd said that I'll freeze her out for a little while(few days)which I did for about 3 days and not getting at her until she gets to me first.

We'll guys,I called her at noon today. Im so friggin dissappointed that I wasn't strong enough to hold out in this case.

We had a great chat for 10 min. but I'd wanted to freeze her ass out but didn't!!!

So this's what happened.

We live in the same village on the island so there was a local basketball game Saturday night.

I went and to my surprise,she was there also.

We eyed eachother all night;she being the one eyeing me more.

I was with a buddy(in plain view where she could see me),and my buddy(unknowing to him)said,"hey,that girl keep checcing you out".Seems like she's talking about us".

My buddy doesn't know about this sarge yet he noticed the librarian chccing me out(lol).

So this noon[2 days later],I called her out on it(via phone call):

Me:You know its a crime to watch ppl so much?

HB7.8:What[with a giggle]?

Me:What?I wish I had a camera to record how much you were checcing me out.

HB:Its not a crime;its my eyes[with humor].

Long story short,she admits checcing me out for the entire game(over 2 hrs.)and telling her friend about me(seated next to her).

But she tried hrowing off the attraction by saying she likes the way I dress(peacocking)and she was checcing me out based on that only.

So guys,there's no secret that she's attracted but Im still wondering if she's just a flirt or a potential lay.

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Ahh shes just one of those "hard to get" .

Dont give her an option next time to meet you somewhere... just say it, make something up (lie) if is necesarily lol. Then when she comes tell her that you cant believe she fall for that so easy. (she wont mind, she will like it how you got her there).

Try with points game... So when she comes to 10 points tell her you will award her (drink, dinner, zoo hahah whatever ). Or even better if she asks whats up with those points tell her she can buy you a drink when she comes to 10 points... When she get to 20, then you got something interesting for her (dont tell her what, its just to make her meet you somewhere)

You know, cool points (it works every time).

Try with some push-pull (this relationship is not working, go tell your friend over there that she is my new gf)...

Or... Next time when she will watching you so much YOU DONT LOOK AT HER AT ALL! When she asks whats wrong, just tell her you are arguing with your ex, that she saw you and she was a lil bit jealous...You are good friend with your ex tho you dont want go back to here even if shes rly nice to you lately...But you kinda feel like you can ruin a good friendship with her so you are not sure... (those are just ideas...)

Make something like that... Just to make her feel like she can loose you any moment.

Good luck!

Lol,Im feeling the point system routine.

I actually use it in most sarges but I never so far in this sarge.

The thing is Cropua,is that this chicc isn't complying to a meet.

She's not flakey,she just won't commit to meeting up.

I'd suggested twice and she said"Nope",she doesn't want to meet up.

That's why I took the alpha initiative to go see her at her jobsite(library).

The witch just won't commit to meeting some where else.

But you have a point about meeting up. Basically tell her where Im going to be(as you'd wrote)and look out to see if she shows.

But best bet as Cropua suggested is for me to tell her what Im up to(where I'll be)then work on it from there.

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Do as Cropua said, it's good moves. Push and pull her now whenever it suits you. She is defo interested K. Have you ever thought that deep down she's really shy? Or been hurt before? In the past (before PU) it took me ages to meet with a girl, she kept refusing, in the end I found out it was down to past experience where she had been hurt.

Keep showing your the go with the flow kind of guy, don't chat everyday, push and pull, she will break her barrier.