so i talked to this girl on the phone for a while and i got really attached to her i never met her in person until like a week ago but i got really attached to her turns out she looks nothing like the pictures she sent me shes pretty overweight what im saying is dont get attached to girls you meet on the internet and i really think im going to be more carefull now lol but what i want to know is how do i get over this girl she came and decorated my car and she did so much shit but i dont like her im not attracted to her is just the emotional part and she wont leave me alone how do i get over this?

Simple. Tell her you aren't attracted to her (But be gentle - shes probably got self esteem issues) and Get rid of all forms of possible contact with her if she won't leave you alone. Alternatively just tell her you just want to be friends.

There's no need to tell her you're not attracted to her. There's no way to be gentle about that. Just tell her you're not ready to have a relationship right now, and then do the friends spiel. Tell her you're sorry if she feels like you strung her along.