this girl likes me and is physically attracted to me, but she is super busy and not like every other girl, she really thinks about her future. i wanted to take her out, but she found excuses and then finally said she wants to be friends first for now. how should i proceed?

I would not get hung up on one girl. Listen if you want to win this girl over you need to show non-neediness and show that you have other attractive women who want to be with you. Once she sees that, you can proceed to make her yours.

She needs to want you. Make her want you! Don't try-hard but go back to cocky playful, show her a great time, and get her begging to take you out. The LJBF could be a mild shit test

You would probably proceed by putting this topic in the 'General Questions' forum haha.

(Like Smartbomb said, it might be a shit-test, so first check if this is true, or whether the LJBF thing is genuine)

If it's genuine, you can accept the title of 'friend', but don't behave like one. Keep your distance, and don't focus on her any more, get other girls, throw other DHV's etc. Basically just continue gaming, but be careful that she doesn't completely place you in her friend zone. After a while you can throw in another SOI and see where it goes.


Warning: If her studies are that important, make sure you're not seen as something blocking her capability to study. (Just like you're not asking a career woman to hang with you for several hours on a Tuesday afternoon.)

Anyway, Good luck
-Valley