I'm having a girl over monday. (I met her at a bar, got her number, texted a few times). But now she's coming over, and I don't really know what to expect.

I've had a few dates before, but those were like dates with girls a wanted (and later had) a relationship with.
But thats not what I want now. So I think it's different right?
I don't want her to get the feeling I want her for a relationship, I just want -no disrespect- to go to bed with her.

It's the first time I 'date' a girl like that, so, any tips?

In case I posted this in the wrong forum, forgive me.
And I also used the search option but didn't really know what keywords to use, so didn't really find any usefull topics.

Dude just because you've got a second date with this girl it doesn't mean she is looking for a relationship. Most of the time girls just want to fuck too but cant be as blatant about it because they think people will label them sluts!

Your the one in control here, so if you don't want a relationship don't have one and if she pressures you or hints for something more just say you cant promise her anything more than good conversation. This way you will always leave her wanting more.

I have a bed and a t.v in my room so whenever a chick comes over I always watch a film an we sit/lay on my bed this already helps set the stage for the night to come, because no girl is going to put herself in that position if they don't want something to happen.

That's pretty much all there is too it, make her feel relaxed, get her something to drink and go from there, and if she tries to drop a shit test on you like "we've only just met" or "I don't usually do this" just say "respect", then start over again. Because at the end of the day she is only doing it for self validation and to make herself feel like she is not being a slut.

Just look at it this way....... would you go round to a girls house and watch a film on her bed if you didn't want anything to happen???

case closed, hope this helps.

1st. advice Jarbb.

Be a fucking man!!!!

Stop thinking like a wussy.

You want to lay this girl-then act like it and don't fake it by acting as though you wanted a relationship or friendship.

So you should subcommunicate to her that you're not into LTR.

The mistake guys make and you'd made with past hook ups was that it was a traditional date. Traditional dates brings traditional results:no lay or a relationship.

But there's a lot we don't know about your situation.

Have you ever even spoken to the girl or just texts?

Whatever. Just stop having a wussy out-look on women.

You should set the frame. And don't let the woman set the frame for you.

And stop sounding so apologetic. You are the damn man.

Treat your dates as though they're no big deal. As thoug you don't care what happens.

That's how hot girls treat them.

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