Jesus, this shits me... Do you honestly think an alpha male is the biggest strongest guy around??? Wow... dude, you may wanna take a step back a redefine AMOG. From what I gather your perception of an AMOG to be, is someone who is physically stronger, and percieved to be an outright thug/bad guy/jock. If this is the case. Then this line of "Tarzan" aint gonna work. The AMOG = centre of attention of a group. Next time you do go out by yourself to a club, mall, shop, or where ever there are groups of people, I want you to pay attention to the group dynamic. Pick out the so called amog, or the one who is capturing everyone's attention, look at what sort of person that is.
You'll notice, especially amongst groups of highschool students, that the amog is the centre of attention. Why, because the 'alpha male' displays personality traits that make people, stop and pay attention to them. This is a quality that is described by Mystery, as a desirable trait, to be a leader of men. However, to be a leader of men, doesn't necessarily mean you have to be the strongest, or worse yet, look like you could beat down on everyman in the world. An alpha male, can be intelligent, better looking, or great with socializing. I'm going to use Methuselah, as an example... From his display pic, he physically may not be the biggest guy going around (if you compare him, to say Lennox Lewis), but if you were to use the Tarzan line on him... I don't think he would resort to violence, because the guy's smart. He's a word smith, he would blow you outta the water, and devalue you in front of your potential target, put simply to Darwinism. Now, i'm not trying to blow smoke up his ass, because if we were to change the scenario... and add me to this case, physically, I'm bigger. Now, if the case were to change that I would resort to violence, i'm pretty sure whoever caught witness to the fight, would be in for a good show. Because, not only is meth physically capable, of handling a beating, he would be able to dish one out due to his training in multiple forms of self-defense. I'd love to have a beer with ya meth, and see how this would turn out...
The reason why methuselah, is a great example of why he is alpha, it's because he is on so many different levels.
Do not limit your perception of an alpha male to physical realm, PEOPLE ARE NOT ONE DIMENSIONAL! Period. The way around an AMOG, alpha male, or what ever... to diffuse them, is to play to the ego of them. AMOG's absolutely hate hanging out/associating, with those who are inferior to them. They hate it with a passion. WHY? Because being seen with someone, who is inferior will lower their value, and they're just exercising Darwinism, on your ass. For those of you who have participated in team sports, have you ever noticed the star of your team, will hang around other guys, near or around the same skill level as them? Darwinism. Your coaches, why do you take the field and listen to their instruction? Because of the their intelligence, their experience... they're a leader.
So in order to diffuse this obstacle, is to bring yourself to their level... find that common ground, in which they're alpha to, and display to them that you are also alpha within that realm the AMOG is alpha to.
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