| So I go to a large state school. The past year and a half I've been messing around with different techniques for in-class day game, and I'm trying a new method which is looking like it will show some results. Here is a field report of my first day (Monday the 8th) trying this method.
Get to class early: Very important get to class and be one of the first ones. Sit in the middle of the row and concern yourself with work, don't watch the door or look when someone comes in.
Peacock: Don't go overboard but since it's winter I wore a big ski jacket with a fur hood, anything that is going to draw attention when people walking the door, and they will see you working on something.
Keep working: When a girl sits down next to you don't immediately start jabbering with small talk, wait 1-2 minutes to get her situated, your concerned with your school work (giving you higher value) not her.
Indirect Game: Start off the conversation with a comment on the class, professor, weather, homework, test anything to get it rolling. then just small talk.
Don't # Close: In my experience at college if you number close a girl you meet in class the day you meet her (keep in mind i'm at a huge university) they are a little creeped out unless your verbal games is on fucking point, and usually flake.
Repeat: Go to class the next day, sit in a similar spot with the same peacocked outerwear (hat, coat, shades) but a different outfit, if your game was tight the first day she would have noticed a few things: Your not super concerned with her, you work hard in school so you have value, you're a Good guy (not nice) you were polite, and established an identity with her as someone who isn't a creep. You talk with her again and get her number.
I did everything but repeat today. A girl came and sat down next to me and I saw her out of my eye but didn't look, I just kept working, I could tell she was waiting for me to say something. I opened with "Too bad all this snow is on a monday, I want to go skiing" and we took it from there. I developed a good deal of rapport with her about skiing and traveling and found out we were both History Majors. Are professor is funny and we laughed together throughout class, at point when are conversation stalled she apologized for concentrating on her paper I said "it don't bother me" demonstrating I'll survive with out it, and I don't need you. At the end of class I put my coat on and she was kind of hanging around at the end of the row, expecting me to say goodbye, she turned around then flipped back around and said "have a good one" I looked at the snow and said "too bad I gotta do this class thing". Now if everything goes as planned I'll get her name and number next class.
We'll see. I'm debating whether or not to wait outside of class for her to come, or leave it up to her to sit next to me. Also in retrospect I think it would have been better to get her name. But I didn't bother, which I guess just shows I'm not too interested, but she was definitely throwing me some IOI's.
Hope this helps,
Dizz
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