Any tips for how to get around buyers remorse? Last night I hooked up and f-closed a girl who has recently broken up with her bf, and I think she is feeling fairly confused and doesn't know where she's at. She seemed kind of awkward this morning, even though I wasn't. But I didn't know what to say to her to make her feel that she doesn't have to feel bad about it.

Buyer's Remorse occurs when there isn't enough comfort built during the courtship. So if you met her and hooked up with her the same night then you experienced a Fool's Mate, and its very typical that Buyer's Remorse occurs. There isn't much you can really say to make her feel better at that point, she made her decision, she was confused, and she may regret it.

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I am in a situation, not exact, but I do not know if it is a form of Buyer's Remorse???

This girl I've been going at for about 6 months...Long story short: She liked me a lot, I was busy and had other things going on, started to doubt myself with her (It happens ever so often even to anyone), never went for a kiss even and moved into LJBF land, got out but into her thinking I was an asshole just trying to use her after being a little too cocky one night, then was able to work back into LJBF land, again have never tried Kissing her...

We come back from winter break after me ignoring her and moving on (yes a little bit of one-itis, but she is LTR material and I wanna try it)...She is texting me saying she misses me the first two days, we go to a party the second night of school, she was drunk and all over me again. I didn't bother to Kiss to prevent any form of buyer's remorse whatsoever.

I take her out bowling the next day after the party and after successfully gaming her, and finally k-close. She hasn't spoken to me since in the past 2 days despite my efforts to not be awkward, lose friendship, or contact....I have no idea what it is?

Any input from anyone?

All I can say is women are fucking ridiculous.

I went to this club recently and at this table was a pile of free stash (glowsticks, uv paint etc.). There was a girl throwing things up into the air and half of it was landing on me. I playfully told her off, but then I picked up what I knew was a breath freshener and I asked what it was. She started trying to spray it into my mouth and we got into a wrestling match over it. After we did it to each other I said, "I guess that means you're allowed to kiss me now." Without even knowing her name, we were making-out to the point of outercourse. I mean, out of all the people getting off with one another, all eyes were on us and it was filthy. After a couple of hours worth of foreplay and dancing combined, she suddenly ran off! I chased after her and eventually got ahead to talk to some people before following her again (I wasn't going to let her go that easy). The cow just disappears off into the crowd and dances the night away before some other guy dances behind her. Whatever. I just said that I had to leave, which she knew I did, and told the guy to be careful of her.

I find her on facebook, add her and she accepts. I send her this message:

"so...i bet you think i'm just another one of those guys at the club who wants to "party" with you and move onto the next girl, huh? tut tut."

No reply. Great; another "blur" situation. So I decided to send this as my last message:

"mmmm silent SPAM. ok, i know why you walked away in the club, but if you can’t handle talking to me after using me as a pleasure rack, then it’s going to be a little difficult to take you to my friend’s indoor pool party and get to know you better. so unfortunately i’m not allowed to have naughty girls on facebook (zuckerberg gets angry)"

I have far too many "assets" (looks, game, personality/ intelligence etc.) to be mucking around with this shit. I knew that the "one-night stand" framework is a lost cause, but how do you get out of it?! There must be a line!

All I can say is women are fucking ridiculous.

I went to this club recently and at this table was a pile of free stash (glowsticks, uv paint etc.). There was a girl throwing things up into the air and half of it was landing on me. I playfully told her off, but then I picked up what I knew was a breath freshener and I asked what it was. She started trying to spray it into my mouth and we got into a wrestling match over it. After we did it to each other I said, "I guess that means you're allowed to kiss me now." Without even knowing her name, we were making-out to the point of outercourse. I mean, out of all the people getting off with one another, all eyes were on us and it was filthy. After a couple of hours worth of foreplay and dancing combined, she suddenly ran off! I chased after her and eventually got ahead to talk to some people before following her again (I wasn't going to let her go that easy). The cow just disappears off into the crowd and dances the night away before some other guy dances behind her. Whatever. I just said that I had to leave, which she knew I did, and told the guy to be careful of her.

I find her on facebook, add her and she accepts. I send her this message:

"so...i bet you think i'm just another one of those guys at the club who wants to "party" with you and move onto the next girl, huh? tut tut."

No reply. Great; another "blur" situation. So I decided to send this as my last message:

"mmmm silent SPAM. ok, i know why you walked away in the club, but if you can’t handle talking to me after using me as a pleasure rack, then it’s going to be a little difficult to take you to my friend’s indoor pool party and get to know you better. so unfortunately i’m not allowed to have naughty girls on facebook (zuckerberg gets angry)"

I have far too many "assets" (looks, game, personality/ intelligence etc.) to be mucking around with this shit. I knew that the "one-night stand" framework is a lost cause, but how do you get out of it?! There must be a line!