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| buzzlightyear2k | PostPosted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 4:35 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Apr 15, 2009 12:12 am Posts: 12 | | I'm looking for any quick little ways to create attraction or at least some level of interest immediately (within the first 2 minutes) after being introduced through a mutual friend. Any tips? _________________ DO WORK
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| The_Enforcer | PostPosted: Wed Feb 17, 2010 5:24 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Feb 13, 2010 11:18 am Posts: 164 | | I would DHV, maybe fire in a soft neg and then isolate quickly - using a line like:
"I'm sorry I have been ignoring your friend and I feel bad, do you mind if I borrow her for a minute".
The mutual friend introduction will give you a degree of comfort from her perspective and her friends should trust you since you have been introduced (high comfort, high value).
Ideally you would want your friend to give you an AI (Accopmlishment Introduction) prior to your arrival, but the truth is once you isolate the game can be played as normal. _________________ Regards,
The Enforcer.
The game is easy to start, the referee blows the whistle. It's where you go from there that matters.
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| buzzlightyear2k | PostPosted: Thu Feb 18, 2010 7:20 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Apr 15, 2009 12:12 am Posts: 12 | | Good post. I actually tried this earlier today and it seemed to work pretty well.
-Her names Ivanna
Me: Are you German?
Ivanna: Italian
Me: You know what they say about Italian girls right?
Nothing special but starts a bit of a convo. I think being introduced is better than a cold approach because you already have comfort built in.
If anyone else has suggestions it would be great. _________________ DO WORK
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| Sly_Wolf | PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 5:39 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Feb 15, 2010 3:07 am Posts: 261 Location: Toronto | | Interesting topic, I'm going to be introduced to a girl very soon from a friend (also a girl) and we'll probably go clubbing right after lol Not sure what DHV is but I'll look for some examples.
I think she is a HB7 so I don't know if I should neg but it's part of my style at this point. I'll read and digest what I can before the meeting but either way I'll be comfortable. I just want to handle the situation best I can, wish I found this site earlier lol
keep it going guys
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| Alsex | PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 7:19 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Jan 04, 2010 7:56 pm Posts: 135 Location: Canada, BC, Richmond | | You really have to understand negging to use it. I think neg should be classified as an advanced stage rather than beginner.
I forgot the video, but some AFC was negging completely wrong and offending the girls. Like "You have such ugly skin" or "I bet your vagina smells bad because your mouth smells bad" or w/e
Some girls take offense to even saying "You're short", it all comes with what tone and body language you use.
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| mrcoffee999888 | PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 8:00 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Thu Jun 26, 2008 1:29 am Posts: 338 | | DHV= Demonstration of Higher Value
Used in comments, use of verbal knowledge, and in stories, which mystery likes to say are "DHV Spiked" where you are subliminally demonstrating the higher value, without simply bragging.
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| Sly_Wolf | PostPosted: Sat Feb 20, 2010 2:39 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Feb 15, 2010 3:07 am Posts: 261 Location: Toronto | | yea thanks guys, I know I gotta be careful with negging cause it might come off a little too negative lol but I first learned about it from experience before I ever discovered PUA and I've mostly gotten posotive results although I still need to work on it to be great and adapt well all the time.
At least I don't say some of the dumb shit my friends say lol
friend: (after some small talk...) you know you're pretty beautiful..
HB8: I don't like compliments
friend: okay then you're fucking ugly..
that's when I saw that he lost it from there lol
I've got another friend who starts out talking lightly to girls then sometimes disses them even though he thinks it's a small joke on his side...they sometimes ruin it after we approach some girls and get IOIs but I suppose it's my job to isolate the girl I want and take it from there
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