Ok so i've got this sexy 19 year old I met a few weeks back. She came out with my buddies and I on sat night, ended up staying over and getting a HJ. Now i'm having her over tonight and cooking her dinner and desert and she seems really excited.

I'm pretty much just worried about the age gap here. Running DHV's and attraction stuff on her like the cube, and other cold reading stuff doesn't work on a 19yr old like it does on a 25 year old. this girl is a bit immature and I imagine nervous hanging out with a 25 year old, but she is just waaaaay too hot to pass up and quit working for.

Anyway i'm new to the game and am Basically looking for some things to say to keep a HB9 19 yr old around for a while and not bore her with stuff that works like magic on an older more mature girl.

Ideas are very welcome!

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"Will you please stop flirting with me? You're making everyone here really uncomfortable"

She is coming to your place and you're cooking her dinner....You seem to be in a great place! This girl will be looking up to you since you are older which is a great spot to be in. Let her validate herself to you.

I don't know if you are a drinker, or if she is, but this seems like a basic lay up. I love to drink wine, and always have wine at my place to break open whenever I have a girl over. But....I occasionally have a young lady over that is younger, 19 or so, and they haven't quite developed the taste for wine. Usually when they come over they want to drink, get fucked up, and then fuck...that's why I love them. That is why I always keep a bottle of vodka and the mixing for apple martini's as well. No 19 year old girl doesn't like apple martini's.

I don't watch TV or movies, that is boring and distracting. Instead, put on the radio or a CD. I hook up my stereo to the internet and put on Pandora.com and play Boyce Avenue. It's an acoustic music station and is relaxing to listen to while just hanging out. Then just talk. After 1 drink you guys will start getting a little buzz and after two she will love how you cook and talk with her rather than bring her to lame parties where everyone is drinking out of kegs. She will appreciate acting like an adult

Make sure you are sitting next to her, and make sure you're knees are touching at first. After talking for a bit things should transition pretty smoothly. Be proactive make sure there is kino escalation. Once you are finally making out on the couch, there is only one way to make the move to the bedroom.....

Stand up, grab her hand, and walk to the bedroom. Don't ask, don't imply, and don't gesture toward it. Just do it. It's what she wants. Well good luck!

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Def some tight advice roofas.

Yeah man, I dig the advice. So before I could read your reply, she came over. I had already planned out the wine thing. She was impressed that I by accident had picked up her favorite bottle of pinot grigio, that def scored me some points.

I had decided earlier to scratch the dinner idea and just make desert. So we had a few glasses of wine, she helped me make the desert while we joked around and threw ingredients at each other.

the conversation ran smoothly and she was definitely feeling me however, she seemed very hesitant to respond when I used some light kino on her. Maybe this is due to her level of nervousness. I'd bump into her with my hips and she'd smile and giggle but not bump me back. or i'd come from behind and put my hands on the outside of her hips while she was mixing ingredients and didn't get as much of a reciprocal response as I was looking for.

Maybe thats just the way she is in general, who knows. It prob also doesnt help that I have 3 roomates who were in an out the whole time.

She still lives with her mom and had told her that she'd be home later and was going to let her sample the desert we made, so after watching shawn white tear it up on the halfpipe for a while, she took off after a 2-3 min makeout in the parking lot.

She seems like a really good girl so I didn't want to push anything more or push her to come upstairs to my room.

I feel like the time spent talking and interacting with my roomates while watching tv and all scored me lots of rapport and helped built much more comfort, hopefully enough to lay some pipe next time around.

I am confused if she's just really nervous and not into PDA (with the roomates around the corner) or what.

thoughts? did I play this right? anything I can do to kinda force her to reciprocate a little more with the kino?

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"Will you please stop flirting with me? You're making everyone here really uncomfortable"

dude.

It prob also doesnt help that I have 3 roomates who were in an out the whole time. <--

I hate to be captain obvious here but this kills a "romantic moment" and adds a lot of distractions and anxiety for a girl. She doesn't you know you that well and doesn't know these guys? No wonder she was cold, she was nervous and massively uncomfortable.

Making a big deal with age gap will kill your ability to make this interaction solid. I'm 28 and have been dating girls between 19 and 41 years old, age doesn't f'ing matter.

Also, forgot all this shit about DHV, just be a fun sociable guy that is cool to be around. She is not in the age group that cares about anything else.

Lastly,

"She seems like a really good girl so I didn't want to push anything more or push her to come upstairs to my room. "

Man oh man, you never "push" a girl into your room, you have an excuse to bring her into it, whether it's music, pictures, homemade movie, etc. "Hey come check out my ___" and lead her to your room.

Roommates can definitely be an obstacle. I'm sure that played into her reason for not being too receptive of the kino and such. It is just going to take a bit of time...not too much, but some isolation, some alone time with her so that she is comfortable just coming over and going to your room.

It sounds like the wine was a good move. Always stay stocked with just enough for a night with any type of woman. I'm not sure where you live...but google some things to do in your area if you're from or near a city with stuff going on. Take her out somewhere different, somewhere fun. This will build the relationship and that comfort quick! And the fact that she seems like a nice girl......who cares haha. Unless you're looking for a girlfriend then I wouldn't worry about how nice she is. Just get her in the bedroom. I like to think I can bring out the slut in any girl....you should do the same.

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