the girlfriendcame home real drunk tonight i had to carry her in the house i am a bit pissed because she said that she was not going to stay ou that late and not drink much. i also dant want to be overprotective of her. im just not sure if I should throw her shit out tomorrow or not J/K

think about this from a positive angle... you now get to go out and get smashed with your friends and she CAN'T bitch at you for it!

Nobody's perfect, but I think the level of concern in this situation comes from the context in which she got drunk. Was she out with "the girls" or were their guys involved? If there were guys, were they known to her (friendzoned, non threatening) or were they gaming her?

If she had a little too much to drink with her friends, that happens - people are having fun, they get carried away, etc.

If she got drunk so that her inhibitions were a little lower and she was more receptive to the advances of other men.... totally different story.

Absolutely.

A one time incident doesn't really suggest that she went out and fucked a random dude. Just ask her how her night was in a really casual way and get a feel for if she making something up, but I doubt anything was suspicious.

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He wouldn't be able to know that nor would any guy. Think about this - if you got drunk out of your mind you would be more receptive to advances of other women, whether you have a girlfriend or not. It takes quite a bit of will power at that point to dismiss those advances.

Anyways, tmg3 is right.

Ok I can see why everyone is all on the topic of whether she has been unfaithful or not but the topic has moved off question. "How do we take it?" well the truth is that we can't really deny our emotions but we can resist them and it is best if we do until she is sober. There would be no point asking anything if she's emotionally unstable(from drunkiness), if anything I would just ask her if she wanted to snuggle up or want to go to bed. If she says bed then yeah sure it's going to heighten your anger or insecurities but you shouldn't immediately assume it's because she can't be arsed with you she just may had a really good night and wants a rest. If your concerned then ask her in a totally constructive and congruent way, do not say destructively, this will just infuriate her.

Notice how if you handle it that way we are letting her go out and enjoy her night and we're not interfeering. That way she won't feel overprotected.

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i would take advantage of her .... J/k

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Lol, that's what my dark side thought for a second, too. Prime time to play the anal card!

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fuck that's funny! Thanks guys for your support I took it lightly but im glad i took some funny pictures of her puking her ass off that night. we talked and now she owes me one

lol rulebreaker .. are you sure it isn't your light side

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Taking advantage is not a good thing. It is pathetic. If you cannot get some action with a normal sober girl then you have a problem. Even if it is your gf. Especially then.


So she gets wasted, big deal. Be happy that she can do that and isnt so boring. Now you would want her to accept that you get drunk right? Treat her like you want her to treat you.

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T'were a joke my good man. I'm not the taking advantage type.

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o my god ezo ... you already assume i meant some sexual things ... i mean she can clean my toilet or whatever .... :P:P , no no no argue here ... i like to clean toilets.
lol rulebreak

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Thats even worse, she would miss a lot of spots and make a bad job... Never send a drunk to clean your toilet...

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