Shovel Boy, read this before you go any further:

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Secondly, this is the second time that I've seen a guy on this forum refer to the, "I'm going shopping, come with me" routine. I was made aware that some DVD printing PUA Master Guru Dude recommends this gig but really . . . why torture yourself and the girl for any reason at all? Text book shopping? Shoe shopping? Tie shopping? Soup can shopping? Go to the DMV to re-new your driver's license? What the hell?

Can anybody here explain the logic behind choosing such torturous tasks in order to "have fun" with a girl?

First of all, you didn't put a question mark after "hey guess what."

She may have just breezed over it and didn't quite catch on that you were asking for a response again.


Like the other guys said, call/text her to either use the shovel again or set up day 2. If it's to use the shovel again, set up the day 2 in person.

That's all you really need to know to proceed from here.