Before I knew about any of this PUA stuff I added this chick on facebook via a friends buddy list. She responded "Do I know you" and I said straight up "Nah, just thought you were cute". This was months ago.

We have met 5 times since. I'll break down how our meetings went. (These were all before I had any knowledge of day 2, opening, cold reading, routines, and so on)

1st meet - met at starbucks. Chatted for a bit drank, got to know each other.

2nd meet - My best friend and I want to go out to a club in DC. He gets a chick to come, and I get her to come. She drives here, parks, and we car pool. It starts bad because there is a local entertainer, and the cover is 20 per person. My Indian friend (He's Sikh) is working at the door. He tells me his friend is singing tonight, and says he can get me into VIP, as well as get drinks. This helps as I think it DHV(Right acroynm? Demonstrates high value). We drink, dance a bit. Get tipsy, and get into some grinding/raunchy dancing. They are popping champagne, and my friend G(The Sikh Indian) is handing us drinks. We almost kiss, but I puss out. We drop the girls off at their cars, and say bye.

3rd meet - I tell her she should come over to watch movies w/me and cuddle-snuggle. She brings movies, we spoon, and watch movies. We get to talking, I ask her "What would you say if I told you I wanted to kiss you?" She says "Maybe?", I go in for the kiss close and got it. Not heavy making out, she's still shy, so it's more like pecks.

4th meet - Movies at my place again. Snuggle, watch, but I graduate to light petting. We make out heavy this time, I'm groping, and rubbing her body, but not her vag. We alternate from her on top kissing me, to me on top kissing her. She has to leave though, because of some school shit.

5th meet - We go to a club again, with my best friend and his chick friend he brought last time. We get drinks, but this time she's cold/prude about dancing close. I figure maybe I'm working too fast. I try again, and she gives an "ick" face. Then she runs off to the bathroom. It's like I'm standing there with my dick in my hand, I"m embarrassed a shit. I shake it off, and say to myself "Fuck her". I start sarging women at the other side of the club. Dance with a few, then see her calling my phone, I ignore it. She texts "where are you?". I wait 5 minutes, and go back. I told her she ran off, so I went to dance. He friends, and a co-worker happen to be at this club. She tells me that she doesn't want to look bad in front of them. I shrug it off, dance like it's a two step catholic school social. We don't get very close. Then she starts giving attention to some other dude, and dancing with him. It's not like he even AMOGed me. She went to him. Again dick in my hand, embarrassed. Gather my composure again, and say "fuck her" again in my mind. This time I sarge a thick chick directly behind the broad I brought. Grind dance with each other, while the girl I brought dances alone (her friend ended up leaving). My best friends gives me a nod as if to say "Cmon go back to her man"...the nice guy AFC in me goes back to her. She tells me she's mad. I playfully hug/kiss her cheeks. The frown eventually turns into a smile again. we end up dancing raunchy at the end. I have too much to drink, and force kiss her when we drop her off. She accepts it coldly.


Since then I have been an AFC. I texted her a few times, called twice. left one voicemail. She replies HOURS later to texts, and doesn't return calls.

So the next day (Today) I do not contact her at all. She texts me a few times I reply. She texts me 3-4 more times, but I ignore her for the next 3 hrs. Then respond in cold 3 word replies. her last 3 texts go un answered for an hr or two. She then calls. We talk about random shit. Apparently she couldn't do anything the next day (Valentines day) because she went to Disney on ice with a "friend" that is a guy. I playfully joke that she went on a V-Day date, and she says in a stern tone "no, it's not even like that".

I shoot the idea to see a movie with her (I know bad idea, but didn't know about good date ideas from this forum then.). I stop my idea mid way, and joke that she always drives to me, and I would go to her this time. She reply's "I'm a good friend, that's why I drive to you" I pause and say "eww did you just use the F word?" She says "What friend?" and I say "ya". She says "ya". I reply in a cold manner "Ya...I didn't get much sleep last night, I'm going to bed" She jokingly says "No, no you're not, i wont let you.: I say "Ya, I need the rest" and she lets out a playful "ahh man". Then we hang up.

Am I now in the fucking friends zone?! Is this salvageable? Wtf did I do wrong here.

update---

Since she has been taking forever to respond to my texts. I called her twice, no call back. She responds with some shit saying she left her phone in the house, and had to shovel. The next day (today) I completely ignore her. She texts me 3-4 times, I don't respond to any for the next 6 hrs. when I do, it's short/cold three world replies. She then calls, and during our conversation explains why she didn't call back. Saying she knows I sleep early for work, and didn't want to wake me up. I throw an idea for a semi-date in the air, since we never had a real one. Just clubs, and her coming to my place. I joke that she's always driving to me, and I could drive to her for once. She replys "I always drive to you, that's just how I am. I'm a good ..................................FRIEND.

I pause, and reply "Eww...did you just drop the F word?" she says "What, Friend?" and I said "ya." and she says "Ya, so?"...I promptly say "....well I didn't get much sleep last night, I should get to bed." but she playfully responds "No, no *giggle*", I respond with a cold "ya....I should sleep" and she lets out a semi-playful sad "aww, well ok." so I hang up.

Am I fucked here fellas? Am I now in the LJBF zone, or did I do the right thing.

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