Yep pretty much right. Also even if you want to answer questions, you don't have to tell her every little detail, just answer briefly that will get her wondering, I always do that and they get deeper into you. Women like a man with a bit of mystery and arrogance about him.

it sounds to me like you didn't game her correctly before you got her number.... it seems like you have mutual friends and thats why she didn't decline giving you her number, but that doesn't mean you built attraction.

well you know you'll eventualy run into her again.. so thats a good thing. WHAT YOU SHOULD DO. is just stop texting her and devote that energy in finding a hotter girl... however, when u run into her be really nice and funny and speak to her with no agenda (that means talk to her but don't ever mention anything about hanging out), then she'll know what she's been missing on.. she'll eventually want to get closer to you and you'll be able to take things with her on another level..

ahh... ok.. how else can i build attraction?i realise i still have some AA in me.. damn. anyway quick ways to remove it ?

Basically removing all the average things for you will happen in time and most importantly experience. So I'd suggest, game other girlsm you have nothing to lose, if they reject, you have lost nothing you just build upon it.. Can some material, master routines, body language and it will all happen and become natural game therfore bye bye afc welcome alpha!

HAHA! thanks man. do you have a msn that we could chat up? i need a mentor!
i can approach friend's friend. but a total stranger is kinda hard for me from where i am as the people here are still quite conservative.
damn.

Sure send me your addy man and I'll add you, hit and miss when I'm on though! I'm no professional but I can give advice that I have gained through experience!

the best way to build attraction for you right now is to show that you lost interest in her. that doens't mean you ignore her. that just means that you treat her like a friend that you have no sexual intention with. By giving a shit about her twits, and all that, that means your all about her and that you NEED HER in yuour life. And thanks to you exhibiting to her friend that you care about her replies, you come off as needy to her.. Come on dude.. your supposed to be an alpha male.. you have more important things to do than care about stupid twits/bbm/txts (THATS WEAK!). she either replies or she doesn't., it stupid computer shit.. lol.

you can fix this though. A way to do this is to not give a shit on hanging out with her or keeping in contact with her (by any means). At the same time, when you do speak to her and show her your a nice guy without expecting anything in return... she'll eventually think to herself "why doesn't he want me anymore, is there something wrong with me. why doesn't he twit bbm me anymore?" and then she'll eventually find a way to come back to you and test you out. you can build attraction from there... by negging..

just be patient. the best thing u can do for yourself is find a girl that's easier and hotter. throw all that txt/twit game stuff in the garbage for now...

so as i said before, be patient and get her out of your head. and wait till you run into her in person. as Mystery said, "if your not afraid of losing her you'll never have her." If you care about her replies this early in your relationship with her, then your lame, and she can sense that.

thanks man.

we bbm-ed today
it went like this
me: so you coughed your lungs out yet?
N:i'm still alive. hahaha
me: damn. LOL
N: so meannnn
me: just joking. how was i ever mean to you? tell me..
N:always so mean i think you hate me.





i havent replied her.. how should i reply to this?

She never said your always mean, you should have just ignored it. Change subject.

she bbm-ed me out of a sudden while i was playing games online..
"goodnight!"


add me online chelios.. i'm online now (:

can't really give you an exact line... just be funny.. and if you have nothing funny to say.. just type

"lol "

by the looks of things she wants you, i didn't think she was that into you yet, but i was wrong...lol.... now that she sent you a good night message she's taking a step forward.. that means you have to take a step forward too... so find a way to invite her out sometime when your doing something cool.. the key word is invite.. dont make a move towards a date yet. it seems like she likes playing alot of games and wants you to win her over,.. HOWEVER before you invite her out, dont send her start any bbm convos and just reply if she mssages you (cuz she prbly will). make it so that she starts the convo and you end it..

omg.. you guys are like.. WOO!
too bad i'm flying off to shang hai for a month.. shld i freeze her out during this period? cos i started a joke about me going to the north pole to catch polar bears.. she kinda bought it..

ya.. freeze her out a little..

hmm.. is one month too logn of a time? or is it ok?