| Ahhh guys....Only been doing PUA training for 2 weeks now and got my first F-close....kinda.
Backstory:
Okay so my friend, she used to live elsewhere before she moved to where she is now (no names for obvious reasons). Well she invited 2 friends out from where she used to live...let's call them H (around a 7.5-8) and E (7). I met them on the train and started gaming them. I didn't deperately try to build rapport (like I usually would), kept my calm and talked with my friends instead.
Well...we got to our destination, which consisted of a cosy bar tucked away. Well we got there, I chose my target E (7). I based it on she seemed fun and didn't act 'unlady like' shall we say.
Well attraction was pretty easy, apparently me dressed up = hot (proud of that)
Comfort and Kino - Pretty straight forward, a combination of ignoring her and not acting needy. Used the question game paritally but gave up after a few questions and then used thumb wars and slaps to build kino.
K-close - Pretty easy, used a cigerette (I'm a none smoker, purely socially. Hey...it works) then told her she had to give me something in return for a pull...a kiss.. after a few...it was basically on. Pretty much home sailing from then on. Didn't talk much and ect. ect. ect. Asked her to come back to mine but instead went to a friends house......blah...blah...blah....bedroom. I couldn't get hard. Simple. I was aroused before, but after we left the bar to get to the train, my attraction went. On the train she was....giving strong IOI's, but that didn't help (she didn't know). At this point I kinda new there was no helping it. Went around...another bar...ended up at my friends. Come to the bedroom....Okay, in my first and so far only sexual relationship condoms haven't fitted well. Then tend to be tight and I lose my erection. I can usually use Durex ones or Mates large, but I had neither...So we're fooling around and then comes crunch time. I put on the condom and I can feel it become less hard already. I enter but no feeling. I try but nothing, soon it slips lose and...well...dies. So there's me, contine to use my mouth will trying to arouse myself...not going well..I slip of the condom and say it slipped off or ripped, cant quite remember...and my friends burst through the door...*phew*. Tell us to do sheesha. So we go and do that for a while, her giving me IOI's. I tell my friends and they say its the drink (I've learnt my lesson). After a while I just say enough's enough so attempt #2. It's going well untill once again I put the condom on and then.../fail.
So now what? I say to here 'Sorry, this isn't happening tonight'
She ask's 'What can I do?'
I reply 'Nothing'
There's us lying there and she get's up...rather annoyed, understandabley so. So i go to comfort her. I say "Look, I'm sorry. It wasn't gonna happen tonight. How about I make it up to you another day?"
She "You think your going to see me again?"
This annoys me. I mean after comfort was built she started saying things that were....a turn off. That was the killer one though.
I say "Well I usually like a iota of commitment. What's your name again?" Revenge.
Ah well, so now after some drama with the rest of my friends (unrelated), I'm sitting here typing it up just to ask what do you think went wrong?
A - I just wasn't aroused sufficent enough, I should have foreplayed longer (She was terrible at giving btw and her kisses have a lot to be desired.)
B - I drank too much. I was tipsy but that was a good 2/3 Hours ago
C - Just too tired. Head's spinning as I type
D - I actually need comitment
E - Finally, what she said was a turn off. Her boasting about her gymnastic skills/previous 5 exploits/how she could get my friend if she really wanted to
Feedback would be appricated. Thanks guys
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