I watched a video with afc Adam and I've seen other well known pua's with girlfriends. I was just wondering what's the best way to tell her your a PUA or studying to become one? Share your ideas or experiences please!!! Thanks!

If she doesent ask or know anything, DONT.

Why would you want to tell her?

You have a gf and you want to tell her that you are learning "techniques" how to easier pick up girls... C'mon man ! Think twice before you try to tell her something stupid like that.

There is no reason to tell her that.

Yea there aren't really any benefits from telling her.

1) She thinks it's wierd.
2) She gets jealous.
3) She thinks your desperate.

Why tell her? Show her.

Don't tell her, I remember I had a girlfriend that read the girls version of pua. It was a womens dating rules book. I was pissed when I started looking at them and realizing that I felt like I was attracted based on a book.

Obviously I'm not going to tell my one and only girlfriend that I'm studying material. That would just look wierd, but what about in "The Game" when Neil was talking about having 11 girlfriends and only one wasn't cool with it. How'd he swing that??? Why would afc adam tell his girl? Because he has to, that's how he makes money?

I think its all about how you present it, just say youre interested in psychology of attraction and it interests you to read this stuff, and style dated multiple girls because they were all those worthless girls that you just kind of hang out iwth every once in a while that don't ask for anthing in return

Yeah definitely. Sure it's not something I just tell everyone, but at some point it's become a conversation topic and I've told a few girls about this, even brought one around from thinking it was bad.

I always present it for what it is - I refer to it as "dating and relationship" material, which has a heavy focus on personal development. Then eventually when they have to see the material, I explain "Pick up artist" is misleading, it's just a name to attract guys to the material and buy it. No one would buy stuff on "self help" even though that's what they actually need.

And I even believe if you think you have to hide it from the world forever, you believe it's sneaky and bad, and you are not as good at it as you could be if you really understood it for what it is. Bringing 2 people together.

you dont want a relationship based on lies. hiding things is just as bad as straight up lying about it. tell her you were a huge nerd a few years ago and picked up a copy of the game as a self help book and its help made you who you are today or something like that.

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This is really the silly topic I had ever came across. I do not know why you want to tell her. I think you will not be benefited by these things.

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