So,

I've been chatting online & txting this girl for a couple of days, we were getting along ok, flirting etc (even showed interest in coming on a mini-trip with some of my friends of mine that was being planned).

Anyhow she suddenly stops replying to my messages and made no contact with me for like 2 days (I know that she wasnt away or anything).

So I stop trying to contact her after like two ignored messages. And 2 more days go by..

Then I get a text from her, "Is this trip still going ahead? "

HERE is where I need some pro help Should I be cool with her, act like nothins happened? I'm really unsure.

MUCH APPRECIATED.

Hi Edward,

As you can see from my post count, I am also new to this forum. But what I can say with certainty is that she will not like to hear you complain about how she was ignoring you. You might make a joke about it if it's appropriate, but it is probably best not to mention her ignoring you at all. That way you are only confirming that she was really ignoring you and that she has control over you, which is not the frame you want to create.

The best attitude for you to take is that you really didn't even pay attention to her not replying as if nothing happened. An attractive person has a lot of stuff to do and has many interesting people in his life, and therefore hardly even notices she wasn't replying as he was doing other cool and fun stuff. If there is something you did that was a lot of fun, it is good to mention that in a sense that she has been missing all the fun. That will make her feel stupid for dropping contact with you.

Everyone has his own style, but this is what I would do. I hope this will help you out

Hey, thanks for the advice Wolf!

I text back to her before reading your reply, reckon I pretty much did OK though, reacted as if I hadnt even noticed her behavior. Friendly, but not too eager to 'win her back' or whatever.

Just got her responce anyway, seems it did the trick

Really appreciate the explanation you gave though, helped me out alot!

It doesn´t really matter when she replies is she replies. She did, your ok then.

We get over excited sometimes and would love to text 24/7, but girls are usually more relaxed haha