So I met this chick over the net.. We've been talking for a little while. And I think we are both getting to the point where we want to meet. And I think she wants to fuck my brains out. We do a little flirting back and forth and theres really good energy there. Not to be shallow or anything but she's just an average sized girl. I mean she's not fat but she's not skinny minny either. From our conversations shes really confident in herself and flirty and she just acts cute. But she says she hates wearing a bathing suit. So I'm really confused here. Because she says she doesn't like being in a bathing suit means she's self conscience about her weight, which leaves me to believe she's overweight... I've only met 3 girls online in real life and I've had mix results. anyone have any advice on what I should do?

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"It's not who I'm underneath, but what I do that defines me"-SPAM Begins

well all girls are self conscious so you have to make her feel comfortable with who she is, she doesnt like wearing bathing suits, so dont do anything where she will be in one

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A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

We've all seen the super-models that are so drop dead gorgeous that AFCs will sell their souls just to kiss them and some of them feel self conscious in a bathing suit. Its just the way women are. I just recommend getting a pic, or webcamming it before meeting in person.

So you have seen her or not? I'm alittle confused about this post.
If you say shes not fat or skinny but avg sized then you've seen her right? If thats the case what led you to believe shes over weight? Lotsa girls feel they're overweight even when they're not, so if shes telling you she doesn't look good in a bathing suit and you say shes avg build then its probably her avg girl program thats telling her to say that.

Like when people invite you over they almost always say "my room/house/apt is dirty" when its really not by normal standards.

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JUSTINcredible!
the one and only

just depends on how choosy ur? i get lotsa chics on line, and must say its not all that easy to ensure every one has a perfect figure. Personally, i don't find a gurl leaning slightly towards the chubby side a great problem.

As other posters said, just cuz she is self-conscious about her figure don't necessarily mean she is overweight. so if she seems cool, has a nice face and ain't fat......then go for it

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bro. what do you have to lose? a few hours of ur time. u dont have to fuck her if you dont want to

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HANG OUT WITH HER ALREADY! Online dating is cool...but you don't want to keep it online at all... just be like I think your awesome but honestly talking online is no way for people to REALLY get to know each other lets go grab coffee? The sooner the better.

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