I need advice on what to do.

I have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months. She lives about an hour away from me. This weekend we could not see each other so we both went to parties in our own town. While she was there a guy she hooked up with before kept trying to hook up with her. He was saying stupid afc shit and she kept saying "You have a girlfriend and I have a boy friend" She told me the whole story. I told her I didnt want her talkng with him from now on and I would figure out what I want to do.
What do you guys think I should do? I would love to beat his ass! (love to!!!!) But I dont want that to cause more problems.

I trust my girlfriend a ton! But I dont trust guys, and since I am not always around her I think I need to do something to make a point.

PS.
I am not mad at my girl, she did all the right things, it was just this scumbag that needs to learn a lesson.

"I trust my girlfriend a ton! But I dont trust guys"

You OBVIOUSLY don't trust your girlfriend if you are posting this message here and considering beating some guys ass. Do you think Brad Pitt would do that? Would he fuck.

The problem is that you are insecure. When she told me the story about the guy I'd come back with "Jeez what a loser, I'd never say shit like that to a girl. Most guy's really don't get it etc." I find even better if you then go on to explain exactly what you WOULD do to get the girl. Makes you look like a guru and hence a cut above the AFC who was trying it on with her.

You need to do exactly nothing other than what I've explained above. Beating some guys ass etc. makes you look insecure and reactive, i.e. low value.

Telling her not to talk to him wasn't great because it signals distrust to her, unfortunately people hitting on your girlfriend is something that's going to happen all the time, and there's nothing that you can really do about it apart from demonstrate high value by not reacting negatively to it.

Just the other day my gf was telling me about how her housemate asked her the morning after the party what the chances and some guy who "really likes her" ever getting together were (he was in the room as were other people). And how the same housemate was talking to a different guy on facebook chat(who also really likes her and is her friend) about all the things he's like to "do" to my gf.

Now of course there's that caveman part of my brain that would like nothing more than to simply do these guys in, but that's nither helpful or the way forward. What matters is that my girlfriend is applalled by her housemates behaviour, and that she did nothing to encourage these people. My respose to her was that her housemate's behaviour wasn't particularly nice.
She told me not to worry about it, to which i replied that i wasn't worried, i trusted her and besides who can blame them because she is really hot after all. But they can't have her

My point here is that your gf acted perfectly in your situation as did mine, she discouraged his behaviour, and told you about it. Thus no jealousy is warrented, I think you should remove the "ban" on talking to this guy (who cares' he's an AFC loser anyway) because this will show her that you do trust her, and that she can talk to you about such things in the future

thats interesting. i am happy i posted on here before I did something. I dont think I am insecure but thinking back on the situation I can see how my actions seemed insecure. Also your right about the ban thing that was pretty ridiculous.
So now how would you suggest I go about 'cleaning' up my mess? Thanks again guys that was really helpful.

also, the reason I have been acting so pissed off is becasue of the amount that it bothered her. She said how grimy it was, how she can never look at this kid the same way etc. So I guess, in a way I was acting be her, and how I want her to know I will protect her.

I had a situation like that once, Credit to a guy who told me to laugh with her about it and say "Well, he has good taste in women, ten out of ten for trying!" or something make her think this doesnt bother you in the slightest. Worked a charm for me.

You did the ... wrong thing..

You told her to not talk to him, and that you want to beat his ass..

Well first thing, you can emotionally affected by an OUTSIDER, then you show insecurity, low self asteem, distrust in the relationship. and so on..

Plus, if you get in a fight with your GF she could think about using this guy against you!..

So you have been together for SEVEN month, for some its a lot, for some, its not enough... i hope in your case, in seven months you already have a steady cemented relationship... that perhaps you are starting to see yourself being with her in the future.. So you should have just have laughed about it, and told her she did the right thing and that loosers like that dont get it when a no is a no, so perhaps next time be more rough with him baby girl.. anyways, so the other day i was... bla bla .. and then move on!..

no biggie.. also if you keep saying "i wanna kick that ass, and his ass" your girlfriend will start to become afraid of telling you stuff like this.. perhaps next time she will keep it a secret.. its best she says everything to you, and knows nothing bad will happen..

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just be confident mang

dont be insecure man not good

show her ur very stong and conidnt

you gotta be more passive about that stuff, and accept that theres going to be times where this stuff happens, the important part is whether shes taking the bait