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| koko45 | PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 8:21 am | |
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Posts: 16 | | i met a girl and she is really shy. when we first met she was nervous and all, but she said she liked hanging out with me. we texted more and then she said that im good looking. she is keeping the convo pretty simple, its mostly me doing the convo. valentines day is coming up, how should i proceed?
thanks in advance guys, appreciate it
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 9:32 am | |
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Location: London, UK | | Well she's admited to liking you, if a girl says your good looking, and you haven't known her a long time, that's one of the biggest IOI's in my opinion as it's straight from the mouth.
Ask her what her plans are for the weekend, don't mention sunday specifically, just mention weekend! Go from there. When she asks what your doin, say your out for a bit friday and saturday then say sunday you've had a few offers but none really appeal, then advance from there.
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| koko45 | PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 9:44 am | |
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Posts: 16 | | hey thanks man for the response. i really like this girl and i dont want to say something stupid or hurt her since she then may shut down completeley. is her nervousness on the first meeting good or bad?
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 9:52 am | |
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Location: London, UK | | Obviously it can depend on the person, but I believe a good way, look at things positively. She wants to meet you and is nervous because she doesn't want to mess things up. If she really is a shy girl and it's not fake, be yourself with her, lead the set, be straight and take control.
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| koko45 | PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 9:56 am | |
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Posts: 16 | | ok, i see. thanks a lot for the advice.
she is going home for the weekend, so how do i make her my valeninte or should i avoid that? should i call her or text her for valentines day?
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 10:20 am | |
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Location: London, UK | | Is her home far from where she is now? If so I'd avoid trying to make her your valentine as it may look needy. If not just ask what her plans are for the weekend.
If home is a fair distance away, come around monday, ask her what's her plans for the week etc.
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| koko45 | PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 4:01 pm | |
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Posts: 16 | | ok man, I should not talk to her for the whole weekend and then talk to her on monday? maybe she is expecting em to ask her for valentines day?
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 7:43 pm | |
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Location: London, UK | | Well how far is her home from you? Ask what she's doing sunday if it's not far, that you'll be in her area if she fancies a drink.
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| koko45 | PostPosted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 9:29 pm | |
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Posts: 16 | | yes, her home is far away, i won't make it. also, she rarely initiates a conversation, and shes giving me mixed signals and everything. i don't know what to think about that ... still she clearly stated that she likes me
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 11:12 am | |
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Location: London, UK | | If I were you leave it for a while, see what happens in the next week, this way you don't seem to needy, and plus she'll be wondering why you haven't been in touch!
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| koko45 | PostPosted: Sat Feb 13, 2010 6:53 pm | |
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Posts: 16 | | chelios, i called her yesterday and we had a great conversation, we laughed a lot.
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 1:51 am | |
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Location: London, UK | | Well why not move things on, ask her to hangout sometime? Do you know what she's upto in the week? Kinda pretend your in an area she's in, ask for a meetup but it may not be for long.
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| koko45 | PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 2:23 am | |
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Posts: 16 | | i forgot to tell you, when we talked yesterday she hung up because she needed to do something. we had a great convo, and she said she wanted to text or call me back, so far she didn't. should i initiate again>?
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| Chelios | PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 10:07 am | |
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Location: London, UK | | Fuck her then, if a girl hangs up I usually wont answer next time she calls, that's because I'm stubborn and like to show who's boss but works for me. Wait for her to get in contact. If you call her your definitely showing for an AFC.
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| koko45 | PostPosted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 9:05 pm | |
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Posts: 16 | | i think there is a different reason because last time when i called her and she didnt pick up, she later told me why i couldnt reach her and apologized.
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