So there was this girl that I worked with a year ago. We always flirted, but I let it be known that I dont get involved with gilrs that I work with. I hadnt seen her in 6 months. A month ago I see her at a bar. Bottom line we hang out again, and I # closed. She calls me when Im at work and invited me to a party at her house. I go over there late cuase i work at a bar and had to close. long story short. I kiss close. We were in her living room when she got freaked out bc her friend was sleeping in her room and she was scared that he would walk out on us. So i gather my shit and leave, except in a drunken state I left a shirt there. the next day i hit her with is text. "Hi. have fun last night? of course you did. but as you know i left my shirt at your house. and i need it back. so dont try to keep it. my weekends are super busy so you cant give it back to me till monday. so call me then."
monday came no call. i sent a text, no response.
did i blow it. is she done with me.
please let me know what I did right and wrong.

im not completely sure but give it some time say 3 days and try to call her again but make sure its at night around 8-10 so she is not busy doing something else talk normal then after 10 mins. say "i have to go call me back later." then if she calls dont answer may b 2 days later call her and try and make some plans for the weekend. Maybe even bring up the shirt so u can b at her place alone and try to close. messege me if this works its just a theory i learned from a friend.

hope it works

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I would call her and hope for a voice message.... and i would say so i was in the grocery store today and saw my shirt on a milk carton.... are you holding that thing for ransom or what!!! call me so we can initate terms for its release

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OK, why is he asking permission to come to her place (DLV)?

Show up.
You're there, She's there. The roommate might be there, he might not. But if he plays it right he can PUA smooth talk her into isolation. And isolation = escalation.

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Usually drinking can ruin a P.U.A.'s game, so don't do it. otherwise you didn't do anything wrong, just give her more time, she'll come around.

Lucky

I agree 100%, my firend was talking about drinking tomorrow night to up his productivity.... i was like no man... confidence, research and practice... ALCOHOL is not the answer to productivity... a drink here and there is good... but remember we arent here to drink...we are here to close....


anyway, how do we get his shirt back... you think just show up???

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thanks guys great shit.
the "milk carton" worked like a charm.

HAHAHA ... awesome man.. glad the milk carton worked... key is making you targets laugh, entertain them... and always be creative... girls get hit on everyday... so always try to think of ways to seperate you from a common average joe.. you do that you are gauranted an increase in value

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