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Hi MB,

the concept of rejection maybe a little sticking point for you. To be successful you need to embrace rejection and actually start to want it. Sounds strange but it isn't.

Rejection is NOT the worst thing a girl can do to you at any stage of the seduction process...so you're thinking what IS worse? Simple, indecision and lack of interest.

Read some of Mode One (Alan Roger Currie) stuff about this. Basically I'll summarise ARC says that girls will fall into 4 categories Reciprocator, Rejecter,Pretender and Timewaster. The first is open and honest and wants to get with you and so will appreciate your approach - you'll have to be really shit to fuck that up! The Rejecter is also direct and open but makes it clear at the start she is not interested - thankfully you'll won't waste time with them! the Pretender (I belive this accounts for a LOT of women) they have been socially conditioned to be nice and not act sluttish so will pretend to be uninterested but actually ARE interested. They are indirect in showing their interest. The last, possibly the worst category - The Timewaster , the type that knows they have little to no interest in you but will play along with vague hints of interest to fuck you around, get a kick out of it, enjoy you company, enjoy your attention money etc... So the most likely type (Pretender) can easily be confused with the worst (Timewaster) as their ultimate intentions are well hidden. Now ask yourself...In the worst 2 cases do I want to be rejected and know where I stand or do I want to be strung along. You'll see that a clear rejection at the start is actually MORE useful for you! You may need to re-read a few times as the concept can be alien at first.

Mode One books are an essential read imho as they really highlight the need for destroying your inner nice guy and the need to become more direct in your dealings with women. men need to learn from women in this area and become far more merciless!

I keep the negs lite, and the cf heavy